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On the wage-labor-free artists and their own business.

2012-01-25T07:48:00.001-08:00

On the wage-labor-free artists and their own business.

I recently celebrated twenty years of retirement from work.Not only from a specific job, in general, "with work." Not that I was there quite badly - draconian discipline, scheming co-workers - no, nothing. After finishing graduate school I was relaxed enough to distribute Institute Academy of Sciences, where not even one day have to come to work in the city center on the Moscow River, with a good friendly team.

But here's the very fact of having two heads ... But the very fact that it is necessary, though not every day, get up early in the morning ... Then I did not know anything about squares Kiyosaki, owner of the psychology of their own businesses, but these two facts seem to me quite unnatural. I lasted a year. A year later, my friends and I founded the cooperative, and I transferred to him as a young professional. I still do not know how I managed to do it!

And here began strange - I do not know what to do with money! For a month I earned more than was at that time, annual salary of research assistant, and my mind was regarded as an analogue of the money wage. Some of my partners in the cooperative hard accumulate start-up capital, which is then invested in the creation of other businesses - real estate and banking. The other part, apparently, felt the same psychological difficulties, as I do - just spend the money, bought cars, smashed them again to buy. Doing the latter I did not want to do as a first - for some reason could not.

Rather intuitively than consciously, I decided to invest a large part of the money in themselves, in their own learning. Just at this time in the Soviet Union began to appear the first technique of transpersonal psychology, and I plunged into this fascinating area. Then went to the U.S. and continued his studies there, he started his training in the world. After escaping from wage labor, and I became a freelance artist when I needed money, I just spent one more training. I traded the illusion of security for an illusion of freedom!

Why do I call these states are illusory? The last ten years I have been working with people who want to create your own business, and every day I see what stereotypes are strong, laid over the years of wage labor, or years of existence in the "wolf's foot feed." Let's try to understand the essence of these stereotypes and chart a way out of them.

The employee is similar to the baby in the womb zasidevshegosya. Its "power", he receives salary of the umbilical cord of one source, and move it around the world are severely restricted eight-hour workday and a few weeks vacation. Periodically tries its womb "bear" - cut jobs, professions are losing relevance, companies leave the market, but usually the employee, instead of being born, finds a new womb. His mind gets used to a limited picture of the world, like an animal at the zoo, which razuchaetsya get their food and die, if his release into the wild.

How to break this stereotype? The main exercise that I give to such people is to shift from cash to assets, cash flows from the sources of such flows. In order to perceive themselves as potential creators of the asset, the owner of a business, a person must some time to meditate on the fact that any cash flow is its creator! The mantra is simple:) "This cafe someone has created, and it belongs to someone else! '" This billboard someone has created, it is part of the advertising business and the business belongs to a man! "

The second step of this exercise is to shift from money as a salary that is short-term (monthly) cash flow of photons, the value of the assets and the ability to create an asset and increase its value. "What that man has built this office building increases its value," "What that man has created this restaurant, and increases its value."

After a month of such meditation the meditator begins to dawn on that business owners are not abstract bourgeois and oligarchs, of whom he reads in the newspapers and hear on television, and ordinary people around him, the creators and founders of the assets. Well, at some point he heard a small voice in my head: "Why do not you become the creator and founder of the business?" The rest - a trick!Moreover, I stress that if we begin to teach people techniques of business creation to the moment when he hears this voice, and probably yours and his efforts are futile, because subconsciously he will look at the world as an employee, as the unborn child!

Free artist is a carrier of other stereotypes. It feels better to their responsibility for creating cash flow in your life, than the employee. We can say that if an employee receives a cash flow of the umbilical cord salary, then a freelance writer scoops of different cash flows, not owning any one source.But for free-lance artist how to create your own business is scary for the basic reason that the stage of the business, he loses his pseudo freedom!

Why do I say that this freedom is illusory, risking protests enormous number of people "liberal professions"? The answer is obvious, and lies on the surface - let's ask a freelance artist for some time not working! What will happen? That's right, he will die of hunger. But the very fact that you "do not go to work," that you have "no heads" is so sweet that when you realize that a free-lance artist and has its own very strict limitations, this understanding quickly zapryatyvaesh in the depths of his subconscious .

As I shatter stereotypes independent artists? I switch their attention to the creative, the creative aspect of creating your own business, and the finiteness of the creation process.The usual idea about the business person who has never created a business is not, is that a business owner is, if not a slave, then certainly a hostage of its own business. And, of course, are always around some friends and relatives who have it actually is! Here we are dealing with a "farewell" of wage labor, with the projection of the state "proteins in the wheel" and to business owners.

Mantras are here - the "creator of the restaurant had a creative joy, and the process of creation lasted for six months", "creator of the cottage community experienced the joy of creativity and creative process lasted two years."Gradually, our "free artist" gets used to the idea that starting a business is no great loss of liberty, than writing a new book or lecture series, and begins to perceive it as a creative project. The rest - a trick:)

Because, of course, creating a business - it is undoubtedly the birth of his "adult life"! Creating your own business - it is an undoubted work! Creating your own business - it is undoubtedly a new level of freedom!

Two brothers, who loved

2012-01-25T07:46:00.001-08:00

Two brothers, who loved
Once upon a time two brothers, one was single, and another had a family. The brothers had a farm, generous land which was giving them a rich harvest of grain. Harvest brothers equally divided between them.

At first all went well. But then married his brother was up in the middle of the night and think, 'No, this is unfair. My brother has no family, and still gets half the crop. I have a wife and five children, I will support in old age. But who will take care of her brother when he is old? He needs to earn more than he earns now, I think he needs the money more than me. "

With such thoughts he got up at night, quietly crept into the barn and his brother tipped back a sack of grain.

Bach, too, began to attend similar thoughts. Sometimes he would wake up at night and thought, "No, it's completely unfair. My brother has a wife and five children, but he only gets half the crop. I do not have the same family. Is it fair that my poor brother, whose need is greater than mine, receives as much as I am? "Then he got up and made his way to the barn and his brother poured a bag of grain there.

One day they woke up at the same time, they went to the barn each brother with a bag on his back and ran into each other!

About the story became known many years later, when the brothers were no longer alive. So, when the townspeople decided to build a temple, they chose a place where they met the brothers, because they could not imagine a place more sacred than this.

Important religious differences between those who believe and who not, but between those who love and who is not.

SEVEN Pitcher with Golden

2012-01-25T07:45:00.001-08:00

SEVEN Pitcher with Golden

Barber walked past his favorite tree when he heard a voice: - Do you want to get seven pitchers of gold?

Looking around, the man saw no one. But greed has pushed him to answer:

- Yes, I want to. Of course I do!

- Then quickly go home, - the voice said, - you will find them there.

All the way home barber ran. And indeed, his house waiting for pitchers of gold, only the last, seventh, was half full.Barber did not leave the desire to fill it to overflowing: he knew that he would not rest until the pitcher will remain half empty.

He sold all the family jewels, turned them into gold coins and threw it into the jar. But the pitcher was still half empty, It was too much! The barber began to save everybody, indulged in all starved himself and his family was starving. It's useless.No matter how much gold he may throw in a pitcher, he was always half empty.

He even begged the king a raise - now it has doubled. The struggle to fill the pitcher continued. Barber was even begging. Pitcher greedily devoured every bar of gold, and obstinately would not be filled.

Once the King drew attention to the fact that the barber looks very bad.

- What's happening to you? - He asked. - You were much happier with the same salary. Now you have twice as much money as you exhausted and depressed. Maybe the whole thing in seven jars of gold?

The barber was very surprised.

- How do you know about it, Your Majesty?

The king laughed:

- I can clearly see that the ghost gave you seven jugs. One day he invited them to me too. When I asked him whether you can spend the money or they can just save up, he disappeared without saying a word. The money is not spent.They just reinforces their desire to save them. Immediately bring back the specter of these pitchers, and you'll feel once again a happy man.

Invite the Spirit into your home

2012-01-25T07:43:00.001-08:00

Jill Edwards

Invite the Spirit into your home
Our mysterious 'I' knows that all living things around and have their minds, from the shed in the garden to the forest.Everything has a lively spirit, including our home. However, many homes now seem dead and soulless, as if they had taken out his heart. They lack a warm and welcoming atmosphere, there is no depth of character, not his song.When we lose touch with his deep "I", our house becomes a commonplace structure, inert container for our bodily needs and things - just a house.

Jane Alexander says: "This house - this is the place that feeds us on every level ... House, who has heart, hugs when we go into the door. We almost feel like it envelops us with its healing power. " This home is filled with loving pulsating Spirit.

How do we create a spiritual home? First, generously give to him her love, care, respect and attention. Then he truly loved you, will soon become a true home. Second, use more natural materials that resonate with the soul: a tree, terracotta, cotton, wool, cane, real fireplace, candles, healthy plants, fresh flowers, water, sunlight and fresh air. (I type in wicker baskets pebbles from places such as New Mexico and crystals from around the world.) Thirdly, choose a furniture that seems to invite people to use it. This, for example, comfy sofas of old pines, but not flawless expensive furniture, on which alone is not enough signs, "Do not touch!".

If at home you arrange the altar, it will also attract the Spirit.The altar should not be large, but you will have a sacred place where you can light a candle for the holiday. There you'll say a prayer or to pause and meditate to stay. (For many years my altar covered with a blanket located on the trunk. Now I am using for this purpose by the window sill, which is high enough, beyond the reach of children.) On the altar you can put candles, family pictures, statues, plaques.favorite quotations, incense or something special you love.On my altar there is a collection of Celtic prayers, the bell of the temple of Bali, a framed picture, embodying the baptism of my son, and a candlestick in the shape of a crescent, which is a gift from a dear friend.

For you, it would be nice to get acquainted with the Spirit of your home. In many traditional cultures, people celebrated the spirit of his home on the altar every day, inviting the spirits to bless and guardian to protect the house. We in the West almost lost this mystical awareness.

As soon as you realize that your home should be a spirit (or angel or deva), enter into contact with it becomes easy. Ask yourself, where is the heart of your home. Nestle into this place, look inside yourself, calm your mind and ask for a connection to the Spirit of your home. Yours sincerely greet him and invite conversation. Ask him how he sees the house, or that he expects from you. You can hear the words, see images and get some hints, or you have any experience. I usually consults with the Spirit of the house before you arrange it changes. For example, when I need to convert unneeded dining in a cozy room. I have always from the heart hello to him when coming home from a trip and say goodbye when leaving it for a long time.

Each home is unique spirit. For example, the Spirit of our home courageous and energetic, it looks like a fearless angel. But the cottage in Cornwall has a feminine spirit. He air, gentle, loving, friendly, and even grateful.

Confess relentless love

2012-01-25T07:41:00.001-08:00

Robin S. Sharma

Confess relentless love

Self-discipline is a golden thread runs through a person's life, making it relevant and successful in all respects. Self-discipline makes a man do all the work, which he understood the need, but that all the time trying to avoid.

Without discipline we can not clearly define its goals, effectively manage time, a good attitude to people, take care of their health or to abstain from evil thoughts.

Habit of internal discipline I call the "relentless love," because to be demanding with himself - it's a great gesture of love. By forcing yourself to be collected, you begin to live more purposefully, in accordance with its principles, and not just react like opavshemu from the tree, persecuted the wind sheet.

At one seminar I said: "The more demanding you show to yourself, the easier it will develop your life." The content of a person's life is ultimately determined by the correctness of his choice or decision. This happens when we think of the beloved profession or interesting to us a book about what time to wake up in the morning is best, or what you should consider during the day. When a man constantly takes willpower, making the right with his point of view of choice, and ignores the easier ways to solve his problem, he gains control over their lives. People who live a bright and fulfilling lives, not wasting their time on such a decision unnecessary tasks that do not deliver them to unnecessary trouble. They have the courage to, to listen to the voice of reason, to take a wise decision in any situation. It is this ability makes them great.

"A successful man used to do what losers do not like to do - once noted writer and thinker EM Gray. - It is not necessary to successful people love to do it. However, they are able to subordinate their desire goal. "

When he came to the same conclusion, an English writer of the 19th century, Thomas Henry Huxley said: "Perhaps the most important result of all education is the ability to make something that should, regardless of their desires."

Somewhat differently expressed this thought wise Aristotle: "Man in the life of a well is given that on which he is hard at work: a good builder, for example, will be only those who have a lot of builds, and a good harpist - someone who plays a lot of the harp. In the same way as a matter of justice, we are fair. By controlling our actions, we are gathered, and performing daring deeds, we are brave. "

Pursue the merger of body and soul

2012-01-11T08:16:00.001-08:00

Jill Edwards

Pursue the merger of body and soul

In "Ulysses," James Joyce described the man who "lived at some distance from his body." You may also have met such people: they seem to be some kind of distant and ghostly, as if hovering over his body. They talked quietly, often repeating the same thing. From the side it seems that they are in constant shock. At worst, these people barely cope with their daily activities. In such cases, the soul and the human body can be separated from each other, which usually occurs due to a serious emotional or physical trauma. Soul to protect themselves from possible damage and broke away from the body, keeping only the contact, which is sufficient to sustain life in man.

Although such events are rare, many of us have experienced this condition in a milder form, izvstnoy as "split mind" or "emptiness in his soul." We can feel the side of life, to perceive the world in a vague and unreal as experience of depression or apathy. At such times, reduced viability of the organism, decreased energy, loss of self-purpose and direction in which to move. Possible failures of memory, the sense of separateness from the body, there may be addictions. We no longer understand why we live, we feel a void, like something out of our lives and we really miss it.

If you are not completely in my body (probably because of the experienced events, a large amount of mental work, from a negative attitude towards one's own body or even overload meditation), you will not feel quite alive. According to the wisdom of the Huns, the body is a crucial link to your higher "I", so you will also find themselves cut off from the inner guidance, and the two cornerstones of the deeper reality: the knowledge that "I love" and that "there remain safely."According to William Blum: "You can not feel his safety, if not completely in the body and do not feel that it is part of the earth."

Here are five tips to help you achieve the fusion of soul and body

1. Walk in nature. Preferably barefoot. This will help you "land" in the physical body.

2. More fun. Enjoy the sensual pleasures. Hug with your friends, smell roses, lie on the grass, so that you feel like a body.

3. Love and appreciate your body. Sorry if you criticized or insulted him. Send him to thoughts of love. (Serezno! you feel the difference!)

4. Find out creativity. Imagination and creativity will enable sound mix for your soul, and therefore lead to the merging of body and soul.

5. Breathe! Many of us are limited to shallow breathing upper chest, and it suppresses emotions and sensory feelings.Breathe deeply, do not forget the belly. Breathing should be quiet and smooth. Dedicate this a few minutes each day.Relax and focus on your breathing.

According to ancient Indian Ayurvedic medicine commandments: "If you can live in pure joy all the time, you will realize that this perfect health." This requires that the mind, body and spirit are in balance and have been combined. This means life in the deep reality - no worries.

When we constantly inhabit in a relaxing period of time, limiting or even eliminating negative beliefs, emotions flow in the body easily and naturally. Diseases are not compulsory, aging slows or even stops.

It is a sacred union of body and soul, spirit and matter. This is a true paradise on earth.

The lunar cycle and intuition

2012-01-11T08:15:00.001-08:00

El Tat. Overcoming Karma.

The lunar cycle and intuition
Everything in nature is subject hermetic principle of Rhythm.Everything in life has its ebb and flow: The maximum efficiency is replaced by the time thinking, passionate love develops into a quiet satisfaction, but then flares up again.There is time to start new cases, and have the time of rest from any activity.

The variety of natural rhythms

As it would be nice to calculate their own rhythms for life and do all act in strict compliance time for them! There are many ways this "vyschityvaniya." And yet none of them is not absolutely accurate. The fact that people still know very little.He did not think of everything that happens in the world.

The influence of the sun, moon, zodiac signs and the nearest planets as well studied. But the effect on our distant stars, galaxies other black holes, the cosmos, exploding stars again?

The sun, which revolves around the Earth, has a major impact on humans and our whole life. But Sun is not alone in the universe. There are calculations that show that our solar system rotates around the star Sirius. So, Sirius can affect our sun as much as the Sun affects the Earth. Then why do we ignore this effect in astrological predictions? And the ancient Egyptians oriented themselves more and Orion, and not only on Sirius.

The man knows very little. That's why we can not foresee all the changes in our rhythm.

The best - focus on its well-developed intuition. It seems that we intuitively know everything. But this instrument of our knowledge should be improved. Is not this the main direction of the current human development?

Meanwhile, in the intuition there is no certainty, it is recommended to observe the well-known rhythms. Very nice when people know your horoscope. But it is very bad when he sees it as the ultimate truth!

We invite you to observe how the moon affects the rhythm of your body and your life. The moon has a direct and immediate impact on all the water on planet Earth. The effect of rhythm committed tides. The man on more than 70 percent water, so it is not surprising that the moon has on us a very strong influence. Well, when we know about it and consider it in their lives.

We draw your attention to the need not to follow the vibrations of the lunar day, but observe, learn yourself, keep track of how a lunar day affects you personally. Nothing is absolutely fatal.

That Moon stimulates intuition in man! Intuitive perception of the world is being developed and when a man dreams, and tries to understand. What is sleep? This is a journey into the small world! Why are so sweet to go to bed? For the life of anticipating a trip to a better world. And even when our consciousness in the morning does not remember anything, intuition suggests that we have returned from an enjoyable trip.

Unpleasant dreams and nightmares, dreams are related to the obstacles that stand before the man on the way to the shining world of the Divine Light. These obstacles can be addressed in a dream and reality, if we comprehend what they represent in our real life. Dreams can be used as a hint to make decisions, choosing the path of overcoming one's own vices.

(To be continued)

Every day to show kindness to a stranger

2012-01-11T08:13:00.001-08:00

Robin S. Sharma

Every day to show kindness to a stranger

While on his deathbed, Aldous Huxley thought about what might be generalizing wisdom, based on the lessons of his life, and expressed it in a few words, "be kind to each other."

Too often we think that most full self-realization in this life can only be committing a great or heroic deed by which our portraits appear on the front pages of newspapers and on magazine covers. Larger errors I do not know. Contrary to popular belief, full life consists of daily good deeds, which, although modest by nature, methodically create true greatness of human nature.

Anyone who is found on our path of life, teaches us a lesson to learn or story to story. Each day consists of the points made a fleeting encounter with any person, giving us the opportunity to once again show their sympathy and kindness to, which clearly defines our humanness.

Why not start to show our true nature and do everything possible to improve the world around us?

I believe that if during the day you were able to bring a smile to HoTs on one person or to cheer up a stranger, it is not in vain through the day. Quite simply, kindness - a kind of tax that each of us must pay to live on this planet. Providing compassion to a stranger, be inventive. Start your kindness in ordinary everyday situations: driving a car across the bridge fare for him for the driver behind you the next, in the subway Give place a disabled person, or just say hello to every person they encounter you.

I recently received a letter from Washington State from a woman, that's what she wrote:

"As usual, instead of tithe, I send money to people who helped my spiritual formation. Please attached to this letter a check for $ 100 as a token of my gratitude and blessings to you. " Her generosity touched me, and I immediately sent her a tape of one of my speeches on radio. Kindness of this woman and her noble soul urge is a shining example of how important it is to give something to another person while remaining genuinely sincere.

23.3 We all aspire to was named "Oscar" for the role we HRAZDAN LIFE!

2012-01-11T08:08:00.001-08:00

We all aspire to was named "Oscar" for the role we HRAZDAN LIFE!

Exercise 7. Phew, what a sickening mush!

Look in your environment who is thus described by any expression of intimacy of contact between people. Celebrate and correctly interpret any statements accusing the people who support each other close relationships, in secret, 'dirty' intentions.

Pay attention to whether people showing similar setup, stable emotional relationship and how these relationships are stable and profound. Can you notice they have any signs of emotion in the scenes that excite our senses.

Not the best subject for observation are psychopaths, people with personality pathology or malovpechatlitelnye. Describe the steps impressionable, fragile, closed, fearful, apathetic, conservative ...

Analyze the causes and consequences of such a relationship to intimacy as carefully as you can. Be careful not to offend anyone.

Indeed, not always and everywhere we are able to communicate with other people in an open, friendly and confidential manner. Our sincerity is not always perceived as we would like to order. Sometimes in its care of someone we can look inadequate. We may suspect hidden intentions.Moreover, not all interpersonal communication are partners for life.

Depends on us, our organization's personal investment of time in interpersonal relationships. Choose what you prefer: to play or be in close contact with another person, whom you love (not necessarily having sex). Such contact may make your life more beautiful and large, full of happy surprises and expectations.

Consider the sense of compulsion associated with the need to play the role of the constant companion of life person of the opposite sex. Let's think, is not the role of husband / wife initially stressful because of the belief in the superiority of those who played over those who could not, would not or could not fulfill her.

Exercise 8. "What maiden dreams when he grows up" syndrome (spinster), or "Son, you have time" syndrome (an old bachelor)

Find people in your environment, do not become constant companions of living persons of the opposite sex. Perhaps, you relate to them. If so, take care of your mental comfort, and try in their arguments to be honest and brave. Otherwise, for the implementation of this exercise is better not to start.

Think about what reactions to such a situation faced by these people in their groups to render. Can we call these reactions are taking, permissible, frowned upon or pressure? Why they were left without a partner? Was it a conscious choice alone as the option value, the result of lack of suitable cases, inability, fear of the requirements of the role? Perhaps there were other reasons? Organize your findings and share them with anyone

something you trust.

Is it good to be afraid of loneliness? Yes - in the sense of the continuation of our species and not - with an individual point of view. Unfortunately, this sense involves the mechanism of self-fulfilling prophecy. In addition, a strong fear paralyzes us and makes it inactive. Therefore it is better to be alone to feel respected, because it allows us to maintain rationality and activity.

What else should not do?

Do not:

- Believe that the orchestra will meet your expectations.Remember, no one lives for the sake of

In order to meet the expectations of others, especially as they often do

do not realize or misinterpreted;

- Believe that you do fulfill the expectations of their partner.You may even want to execute them, but this is the wrong way, leading to the submission requirements of our life on the other;

- Strive to play the role perfectly. Hopes for a perfect performance as the wife /

husband simply ... bury! It is better to be alive partner with disabilities,

than those who are persistently striving for the unattainable ideal, constantly dissatisfied with the status quo, or feels guilty;

- Promise to someone else, that never, ever, anywhere, everywhere ... Do not forget about the stereotypes, irrational beliefs, and excessive generalizations;

- Communicate in nepartnerskom style. Remember back to the magazine 8, to which at

lead communication strategies, not involving the equality of both values

partners;

- Strive for power, or to obey. The power of love and manipulation of disgust, as well as self-denial;

- Focus on negative examples;

- Use your own energy to it, to avoid actions and events that have hurt us and other people who have adverse effects on the lives of our loved ones, because we thereby anchoring these erroneous decision and give the mechanism of inheritance of pathological specimens;

- To be sure that the resulting communication will develop themselves, and in the optimal direction, without our efforts and active participation. Even the flower gardener requires not only irrigation, but also warmth -

- To think negatively ... Even a small fly in the ointment can spoil a huge barrel of honey;

- Surrender at the first failure. Failure in itself can help you if you make sure that they are able to cope with its consequences, to ascribe the blame only themselves or their partner. This is an obvious absurdity (the third solution is the correct one);

believe that we can change others in their own image and likeness. We can change ourselves, our behavior, attitudes, feelings, and evaluation;

consider the relationship with your partner as something static, unchanging. Any person, being an element of communication, evolving, changing, growing, changing, and therefore the quality of communication;

assume that we know the feelings and position of partner (in fact, we know our ideas about them);

depend entirely on life scenario related to the history of our relations.

If you are convinced that "it's not for long", "not for life," "it's unreliable," You

do not give yourself a chance to even check it out. If the link is suddenly saved, you promise yourself the victim of a subordinate or dominant tyrant. Can play

game, the rituals, to hide behind the work, to avoid intimacy.Here

but why?

Exercise 9. Weep over the role of an ideal performance companion

Go back to the moment of the previous magazine and try, using the same strategy, to say goodbye to the role of an ideal life partner. If you maintain an affiliate relationship, address their feelings, messages and solutions to the real person. Remember a good start, if the conditions to ensure that this exercise was important for you to experience.

Your purpose - to allow yourself not to be perfect in this role and do not reproach myself for it. This permit allows forgive and partner. And forgive us when refuse redress grievances received. Are you both do it?

EXERCISE 10. Which scenario is played out in a pair?

If you do not have a life partner, use so-called "inherited image", and if it is not (due to death, divorce, separation, use ...), history of communications that occurred in the past, if you are now in communication, try to his work is based on real facts and involve a partner to participate in it.

Ask yourself (or yourself and your partner) a number of issues. Ask how the look of partnerships in the history of your family home; are these stories an example to follow or avoid? How do you manage to create a version of the script author's life couple?

What are the considerations on the strength of the bond, fantasy on the theme of possible cheating, the fate of children, material wealth? Do not talk about what dream, try to call the presentation, beliefs, guesses where you are almost sure (even if you do not know why ...).

Return to the movie lesson 21 on the individual life scenarios - it helps you in performing the task. What a story like the story of your life? Can you imagine its ending in the form of the phrase: "And they lived happily ever after ..."?

We'll talk more about what it means - in accordance with the theory of transactional analysis - to realize the scenario when choosing a partner, maintaining a bond or rejecting it.Choosing a life partner, you can compare them with the content of your communication of positions: Parent, Adult, Child (this can help egogramma from lesson 16). It should also compare your position in life. It would be nice to have an idea about the content of your life scenarios on the choice of partner and the history of communications. Do you realize the script "henpecked" and "Big Mama"? Or do you prefer the commandments of misery under the title "Go get married and do not be a woman" and "Marry, but not approach." This is a complementary sample scripts. In many cases, the original state of affairs does not promise anything good pair.There is need professional help ...

All this may not be enough, but it can help you.

Do you know what you should do a couple seeking to maintain a quality relationship? Note that each of us could make your own wish list.

What should I do? ,

- Treat yourself and your partner as equal;

- Emphasis on love, not power;

- How to be tolerant of your partner;

- Remember that you may not approve of certain actions;

- Do not lie;

- Do not hide their feelings;

- To talk about emotions;

- Listen to each other;

- Bear in mind that we - not the victims, persecutors, and rescuers, and we - the individual, the

have equal rights;

- As often as possible together to rejoice, not to forget the laughter.

Add to that your wishes are, in your opinion, should be done to link was strong. Why do we offer different solutions? Talk about it with others.

Differences between the sexes

Discussing the relationship between men and women, it is useful to reflect on what we know about the differences between the sexes.

Most of us prefer to establish and maintain communications with persons of the opposite sex. We will not assess another's choice.

We will not impose standards that are based on the criteria of frequency. We create rules only

for themselves and they will be correct. And take care of the coincidence that we proclaim

the fact that we do.

Be alert to stereotypes, to widespread and unfounded allegations that the men / women - "such and such". In most cases this is stereotyping. Check and double check their beliefs about the so-called correct judgments on the topic of sex.

The guy must be strong and brave as a lion, a tiger, persistent, independent, dominant over the environment, intelligent, easily trained. The girl - gentle, sensitive, obedient, indecisive, sort of a baby, which requires care and "do not invent gunpowder" ... You do know, and other stereotypical statements, is not it?

The article of American psychologists E. Maccoby and C. Dzheklin summarizing the research on this topic can be found on the division of the myths (that is completely refuted by studies of stereotypes), the difference (confirmed experimentally interpersonal characteristics by sex) and uncertainty (hypothesis, which held studies could neither confirm nor deny.)

Meet, please, with this material.

Myths

Untrue, the following:

- The behavior of the girls more in line with social norms and behavior than boys;

- Girls more suggestible than boys;

- Girls' self-esteem is developed weaker than boys;

- The girls do not feel the need for achievement;

- The girls perform better than simple, repetitive, requiring the memorization task;

- Boys more difficult task, requiring a creative approach;

- Boys mentality more analytical;

- More pronounced in girls heredity;

- On the boys more affected environment;

- A girl - "students";

- Young men - "the audience."

Differences

It is true that:

- Boys more aggressive than girls;

- Verbal ability of girls higher than boys;

- Boys are more advanced spatial-visual abilities;

- Boys have greater mathematical ability.

Ambiguities

We still look for answers to questions:

- Are there differences in tactile sensations;

- Is it true that girls are more shy, timid and restless;

- Who are more active - boys or girls;

- Is it true that the need for competition among males is higher than that of girls;

- Is it true that the need for dominance in boys higher than girls;

- Is it true that one sex is more stable than the other;

- Is it true that women are more passive men;

- Is it true that more tutelage and patronage inherent in one of the sexes.

Adventures of the officer on duty.

2012-01-11T08:06:00.001-08:00

Adventures of the officer on duty.
Says Alexander lessingiana, a reserve officer:

In the summer of 1989 our share of the Transbaikal Military District was disbanded and the officers scattered around the still does not fall apart when the Union. I received an appointment at Krasnoyarsk.

Arriving in mid-September to the location and division commanders and chiefs of posing, I was horrified: the newly formed part of an abandoned garnizonchik taken 18 kilometers from the main base! On this site no one has lived 12 years old 15, it was all broken and smashed. Boxes of buildings and structures were no windows and doors and in front of officers and soldiers waited for the harsh Siberian winter. The command of the division has set a target to restore the structure and contributed to this money. The unit commander, political officer, Sergeant, I'm so 11 soldiers - that such a force had to obey orders. A time was set aside very hard - all to be completed by the October holiday. Thus, we spend the day and slept in part, worked like crazy.

In mid-October, soldiers have reported to me about the strange phenomenon of the night: two miles of the location of the four was seen a bright glow, lasting 30 40 seconds, then all went out and went up into the sky a luminous point-like flare. We officers have consulted and decided that it carried out military exercises or group of helicopter reconnaissance.In the harsh routine of the incident soon forgotten.

A similar phenomenon occurred again quite unexpectedly on the night of 7 to 8 November 1989. On the eve of November 5, in part came head of the political division. Congratulations on the upcoming holiday, praised for shock work and awarded the distinguished themselves in the construction of the officers and men. We distributed the festive attire, and I got to watch from 7 to 8 November.

Winter begins in the Krasnoyarsk Territory in the early - mid-October, and snow falls to the ground even before the spring.The air temperature drops at night to 15 18 degrees below zero. The duties of the officer on duty was part of a mandatory inspection of heating, boiler room, car park and other facilities. The duty was placed in the barracks and, going to check on the objects had to do a journal entry.

After receiving instruction in command, I took over duty and engaged in their work: the location of bypassed, had dinner in the dining room, evening roll call and hang up. Reported by telephone on duty on the connection status. Having waited until the staff calm down and fall asleep, I made a journal entry testing: "The loss of 23.45 to check the boiler and the fleet." Before leaving the orderly warned companies about the route and went outside. The night was calm, starry, cold around 10 degrees. The distance from the barracks to the boiler room on the road through the taiga of 800 meters, and from the boiler to the fleet in 1500 of 1,600 meters.

Coming out of the boiler, meters through 250 300 on the road, I saw three silhouettes: two of the same height, about 180 190 centimeters, a third below about 160 centimeters, and it belonged to a teenager or a girl. I did not bring a lantern, as he knew the road, and the moon was shining brightly. What surprised me, because it's appearance and clothing coming: they were disproportionately composed of: the trunk is longer than the lower limbs, hands, thin and long, reaching the level of the knees, an elongated head with no neck immediately passed to the body.

In areas of Krasnoyarsk Territory event of escape of prisoners. But more about that MIA has always made known military garrisons. Then where did this trio? Information on the shoots for the instruction I had received. They were dressed in suits like and, most importantly, emitted a faint greenish blue phosphorescent light!

Mistaking them for terrorists or saboteurs, I grabbed the holster with a gun, trying to unbutton her, loud and commanded, "Stop! I'll shoot! "Up unknown was about 100 meters 120, a gun at that distance is not very effective, but to do so prescriptive. What happened next, I restored from memory over the next three or four years, but full of clarity did not come.

In my cry and a convulsive movement of the hand to holster heard a hissing sound (so open a bottle of champagne) and I received a strong blow to the chest! I do not know whether I lost consciousness for a moment or not, but all I saw and remembered it as if from the outside.

Me and my essence divided - there were separate my physical body, dressed in a coat, with sword belt with holster and, separately, my vision, which fixed everything.

The first thing I saw from the outside, it was my prostrate body in flight (?) With outstretched arms in hand, face down, without a hat. The body was moving with great speed through the pipe, as if vvinchivayas it. There were a pale, grayish green light was coming from the walls. It felt like a huge vacuum cleaner sucking me into the unknown. Tube bending, makes a sharp turn. But what's interesting: I never touched the walls of the pipe, and with such great speed and hair coat floors were in absolute stillness. On his feet were chrome boots, heels but they were missing (?).

Next frame - the room, like a hospital ward or operating room. The dazzling white walls and bright lights, not giving the shadows. The walls are completely bare - no lights, no hole. In the center of the dome-shaped oval in the room stood a table (as in the morgue). It lay my body, face down, in full gear on duty with the armband.

But, oh, horror! Skull opened like an ordinary box and the lid was thrown back from the occiput to the forehead! I saw your brain! Gray yellow, gelatinous mass slightly trembling like jelly or aspic. Blood was not visible, the body felt cold coming from the table. Then out of the air out of the void, to materialize these three things in gidrokombinezonah, the faces were covered with masks. They stood around the table and saw my brain.

The third frame - the same room with the same bright light and three unknowns at the table, on which, also motionless, prostrate my body with an open skull. In one high individual in the hands of a long thin fingers, was a pin with a bright red, shimmering head. This pin point he made five shots in the public mind. After the third injection (in the cerebellum) medulla twitched, though I did not feel pain. Vision was to fade away - the three men disappeared into the air like cigarette smoke.

I woke up in the barracks (?), Sitting on a chair, quite hefty pats on the cheeks. Opening his eyes, I saw a scared to death sentry company junior sergeant and soldier Maksoud Mamedov Basil Ivashina.

They vigorously led me to my senses, in spite of the horror that appears on duty divisions. Thus Basil slapped me on the cheek and shook his shoulder, and Mamedov piously lamented: "Oh, Allah! Captain, where are you from? .. "

Mechanically I looked at the barracks door - it was closed from the inside by two strong iron bars! Above the door hung a large electronic mechanical watch "Amber", they showed 00.07. I glanced at his wrist watch electric - they showed the same time ... There was no I in barracks exactly 22 minutes.After some time I have done the same way with the timing to the boiler. All taken together, it took 17 minutes, that is, it appeared that 5 minutes I was not known where and how to hit a barracks room with the door closed - it is not clear!

At 00.32 on the door of the barracks heard the powerful blows and curses could be heard on the "truly Russian, non-printed" language. The voice belonged to the commander of the Major Vladimir Savich Ostapyuk. Breaking into the barracks, he pounced on me and orderly in company with the questions of what happened in parts. After listening to our reports, as well as the duty of the park and the firemen, he calmed down and took me into his office.

I told him about my accident. The commander, in turn, said he was visiting with his wife from a friend, as expected, in honor of the holiday drink, take a steam bath-house and served on a 23.45 "UAZ" to him. Driving up to the location of parts, saw a sight from which the lost power of speech: flame black ball, ominously shimmering and shining all around, went out into the starry cloudless sky! Having estimated the place where the ball was raised, the Major decided that blew up one of our boilers boiler room! He ordered the driver to turn off the main road, he rushed to the location of parts and gave me a dressing down for having missed the "diversion."

Reassured, the Major sent his wife home in a car, but he himself stayed in the barracks. "Let us look over your route - he said. Then, surprise looking at my feet, asked: - Where are your heels? "I mumbled in response to something unintelligible.

Armed with flashlights, we examined in detail all my way. On snowy roads from the boiler to autopark clearly stood out and nipped my tracks! It was the man, leaving footprints in the snow, and then took even vanished, flew. But the most interesting - we found my right heel. At its center was dvuhsantimetrovoe hole with smooth, melted edges. The impression that someone is pierced with red-hot iron rod heel. Fixing nails were absent.

Here at the beginning of the second night, November 8, 1989 the commander, who believed in everything that happened to me, first uttered the word "UFO." Returning to the barracks, we decided the incident to anyone not to report and keep your mouth shut. The fact that the act was still a secret order to the chief marshal of artillery immediately report to the NF Tolubko at Central Command Post of Strategic Rocket Forces and the Department of the KGB all the obscure and unexplained phenomena. This order prescribed in the case of a meeting with the phenomenon of aggression do not show, do not shoot to kill to open, and observe what is happening and record events.

From experience we know what happens after such statements: runs into a lot of commissions, asking stupid questions are different, and as a result of the applicant becomes objectionable. So we decided to remain silent and in the same spirit instructed the orderly company.

After that, I had a garrison of two others - in the Ukraine and in the Perm region. In the holidays I traveled a lot, walking in the mountains, kayaking down the rivers, climbed with cavers. As the service was wound around the country and no adverse effects from the accident did not feel. His wife, however, noticed one strange thing - I began to see in the dark. But tourists still friends jokingly called me a "barometer": I correctly predicted the weather in the campaigns. By about 1996, these abilities gradually fade away by themselves.

And another thing: in 1990, I was going to come to the academy and passed a medical examination. I had to take a snapshot of the sinuses. So, I did it twice, and twice lighted pictures. Head rentgenotdeleniya Colonel Anatoly Yudin scolded poor quality film, picked up a picture of skull, more or less similar to mine, and handed it to me. But the photos of other officers on the tape of the party for some reason we obtain a normal ...

Respect your body

2012-01-03T07:20:00.001-08:00

Jill Edwards

Respect your body
The body is the temple of our soul. This is the divine light, moving slowly spirals and vibrating, so that we see him hard. The body has its own wisdom and intelligence. It works to maintain our health and vitality, if only we listen and respect him. If we deny or negotiate our body, or try to rise above the physical needs and desires (sometimes encouraged by religion), then there is an internal conflict or neurosis develops, making it impossible for life without worries. As embodied by mystics, we live in harmony with your body and respect its needs.

Our bodies are constantly giving us useful message: slow down, get warm, drink lots of water, rest, eat more fruits, breathe fresh air, knead the muscles, paused, and so on. We are at your own risk and ignore these messages, and yet they point the way to maintain good health and avoid disease. Because each of us is unique, it is important to trust your own intuition is that good for our body, and not listen to the latest fads or medical expert opinions about what is good and what is bad for your health.

If you do get sick, consult the wisdom of the body about the nature of the conflict or imbalance, as well as learn and what you need to take. Just relax, take a look inside yourself and ask for the opportunity to talk with your body.

The answer may come in the form of images, memories, fleeting thoughts or hints. If you hear something strange, like "Take turn off the electric blanket and clock radios," Believe it! Maybe your body is overly sensitive to the effects of electromagnetic fields. I recently received instruction: "Take supplements with enzymes," which I never heard nothing. But now I felt it a positive impact on my energy.

In order to maintain health, you may need not only a change in lifestyle or emotional jolt, but also help the healer. Western medicine offers a lot, and some doctors are really able to work miracles, so do not hesitate to contact them if you feel that doing the right thing. But I believe that in the future in the first place will come vibratory methods of treatment: homeopathy, cranial osteopathy, treatment of floral essential oils, because they treat a person as hollisticheskuyu energy system and support the body without making it over the violence.

Balance is the universal key to good health. Studies have shown that elderly people who eat only healthy food and vitamins necessarily swallowing live no more than middle age. And those whose life balance is always in the normal (three meals a day, sleeping at the same time, the absence of alcohol abuse, smoking, reasonable rest and activity cycles) live 11 years longer than average.

Here are seven top tips for keeping your body in good shape and good health.

1. Eat clean and whole foods, no pesticides and other toxins.

2. Drink plenty of pure water. (There is evidence that chronic dehydration of the body can cause serious illness. Every day should drink at least six glasses of pure water. Tea, coffee, alcohol and salty foods deplete the supply of water in the body.)

3. Go to bed at a certain time, sleeping 7 ~ 8 hours.

4. Do the work that makes you. pleasure and brings results. (For those who are satisfied with their jobs, there is no serious heart attacks.)

5. Spend more time outdoors.

6. Meditate and relax completely every day.

7. Cultivate positive emotions and long-term relationships.

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Find your vocation

2012-01-03T07:19:00.001-08:00

Robin S. Sharma

Find your vocation

As a teenager, I heard from his father's words that I shall never forget:

- My son, the world rejoiced in the birth of your and you're crying at the same time. Lived a life so that the world wept when you filled with joy, going to leave him.

Because of the crazy speed of modern life we no longer realize their true destiny. Today, one can easily land on the moon, but can not find the time to cross the street to meet a new neighbor.We can run a ballistic missile at the other end of the world, calculate its trajectory with remarkable accuracy, but can not find free time to reduce the natural children to the zoo.

To keep in touch with each other, people use e-mail, faxes and digital phones, but never before human beings were more divided. We lost the humane principles, and have lost their purpose in life. We stopped paying attention to authentic human values.

Now, once you started reading this book, let me ask: who cry when you die? How many people touched by the fact that you had the honor to walk the Earth? How will it affect your life on the fate of future generations? What legacy will get your offspring, when the last breath of life you go?

Based on personal experience, I came to this conclusion: if you do not take over your life, then she would get down to you. Days of flow seamlessly into weeks and weeks - in the months and months - years. Life goes quickly to the inevitable denouement, and very soon we are painfully in his heart begin to realize that life is already half prozhita.Kogda George Bernard Shaw was on his deathbed, he asked: - What would you like to be if you were to re-live their life? A little thought, he said with a sigh of disappointment: I would like to be a man who could be, but he failed.

I wrote this book to you is never wrong.

Constantly traveling to cities in North America with workshops, I have devoted much time to participate in numerous conferences to bring people to their own understanding of the fundamental laws of life. I'd like to share with them a personal understanding of leadership - both in its everyday manifestations, and in business.Despite the fact that the people I have ever met, represent different strata of society were concerned about the same questions: "How to find the meaning of life? How much work can make my life better? How to live well in time to enjoy life's journey, yet it is too late? "In response to these questions, I'd say the same thing: Look for his vocation.

I have no doubt that any of us has a special gift that temporarily dormant until it is a chance to open up fully. Everyone lives in order to fulfill its unique challenge - to achieve a noble goal, which will enable it to achieve their highest human potential and at the same time enriching the lives of others. Find your calling does not mean you should abandon the job to be done at this time. You just have to give yourself more to the business and concentrate on what you do best.

Rather live in the hope that your fate will change for the better only through participation in it of other people. As Mahatma Gandhi said: "Be yourself the change that you most want to see in my life."

And as soon as this happens, your life will change.

Release the past and strive for the future

2012-01-03T07:17:00.001-08:00

Jill Edwards

Release the past and strive for the future

Miss Caroline, a very famous doctor-intuitionists, warns that "the biography becomes biology." Painful or traumatic memories, negative attitudes and beliefs can become part of our body. If we do not forgive and not let the past, it will stay in our cells and constantly work on the biochemistry of our body.

The main source of disease and injury is feeling like a victim. For this state is characterized by a belief that someone has done something against you, what you could not affect or in any way to correct ("She dumped me," "He betrayed me," "My mother never let me not really fond of, "" My stepfather treated me cruelly, "" My boss drove me, "" They expected me too much. ") Positioning himself as a "wounded victim," or martyr, we revel in self-pity, looking for sympathy and support, or have an excuse in case of any failure or collapse. But for this we have to pay too much.

Some people are paying for the role of a victim of its own. Twenty years ago I worked as a psychotherapist with people with cancer.I was amazed at how quickly I began to understand which of them was completely cured. Some patients were to my office are configured to do anything, just to let go of the past and achieve a positive new future. Others were determined to live in the past and blaming yourself and others in his illness. Hopefully, you guessed it, one of them recovered?

Disease - is the way our body gradually let go of the emotions that we refuse to acknowledge and express. Resentment, anger, shame, fear, sorrow, hatred and even love can be suppressed and kept in the body, manifesting as physical symptoms for months or even years later.

It is important to respect the emotions. When we let go of the past, this does not mean that we deny it or pretend as if nothing had happened. This means that we allow emotions to flow freely through us in the form of energy. In this case we do not advocate or condone them. (Sometimes it is helpful to share your feelings with a good friend or a doctor. Of course, if they do not support your martyrdom.) Also need to let go of those negative beliefs that support those emotions. For example, the belief that with you that something is wrong. You definitely need to forgive and let go of the past.

There is another source of ill health. You can get sick and if you do not do what is intended for your soul and give up their dreams.And when you constantly ignore the hints of the deep "I" (perhaps out of fear or low self-esteem), the internal conflict certainly lead to illness, anxiety or depression. If you feel you are trapped or unable to change the situation, or are unable to let go of your unwanted responsibilities, you can free yourself through illness or accident. (A tired woman, workaholic, who suffers from breast cancer, told me that he experienced a strange relief when she heard the diagnosis.)

If you're already sick, it is important to honestly look back and see why you need this disease was. That you have benefited for yourself? You may have found love and attention of loved ones, to avoid responsibility, to punish someone, or get a break, finally, your needs come out on top? (Perhaps we should find a healthy way to meet these needs?) Now look how expensive your illness.This discomfort, weakness, limitation of activities, medical care, loss of income, stress in your family. Think about whether all this is your sickness?

Whatever the symptoms, you should come to a conscious decision to be healthy. Then follow the instincts and take whatever steps it tells you. Always strive for the future and to how you want to be, do not get hung up his past and the image is already long past events. Try to see a vivid image of a healthy future and give it to every cell of your body.

***

Harmony and balance ...

2012-01-03T07:16:00.001-08:00

Liz Burba

Harmony and balance

When you learn to see God's goodness in everyone and everything, your life is transformed. Do you feel that all the time bask in the energy.

All forms of life throughout the universe are an expression of God.Inherent in every living being an innate understanding of God's law - only humanity has lost touch with him and has to learn anew.

Feature of the spiritually mature human beings is the ability to live "here and now." As the pace of life in our world increases, making it is becoming harder and harder. All that can most of us - is to "hold" - and many people prefer to "stick" to the past.Clinging to the past, you stand for accumulated, outdated thoughts and things that pull you down and slow down your movement.

It's like climbing up the stairs, taking off for a each step, and laying it on his shoulders. What a terrible burden you take on yourself! You hold in your past? Look around you. Your closets, drawers, attic and basement crammed with accumulated rubbish? You hesitate, afraid to get rid of it? Ask yourself what you really are holding out, and learn to let go.

Now that you've decided to clear his "inner housing", and shalt in his real home. Collect all the things that are within a year were without work and give to them. Right into the mainstream of hoarded energy, so it does not clutter your life.

The more you can give, the more active will cycle, the more you release your own power and will draw to itself new. The energy that is not in motion, is used incorrectly. This is a simple law of the Void (one of the fundamental laws of Prosperity) - for new things and ideas to clean up the place.

Many people are tied to the past, but there are those who think only about the future. They are either worried about it, or waiting to see what happen to them. "When I marry, my life will be better ... When I buy a house ... when I have a child ... I will cast the weight of ... "Life is done now! You live now! Be happy, be yourself now - and all will come to you. So you can act, your energy should be focused on right now.

Learn to think in this order:

1 - be

2 - do

3 - have

instead of "have, do, and then to be." If you're one who says, "If I had it, I could do that and be happy?, You will never be able to.Here is an example of effective thinking: "Be happy, do what you do and you'll get what you want to get."

New Era has just begun - it is based on a philosophy of life, rather than possession. All those who continue to insist on the idea that "to have" more important than "being" will always remain unfulfilled. Getting rid of all that you possess - is not the issue. The solution is to be released from its attachment to things and old ideas. Released and grow to focus on being happy - now!

Do not waste your time worrying about the future. Concentrate on now and believe that your own abilities and the Universal Law of Abundance guarantee your security. You become what you think - you create your reality. Gather your resources, hold firmly and find the balance point. Be yourself, in all its perfection, and everything is as it should be. Then you can confidently move forward toward their goals, to implement all of what you dream!

Trust your inner divinity, that she may send you. Remember, when there is something "unpleasant" - an experience through which you must pass. This is a message from your superconscious that in mind, speech or matters you have entered into conflict with the Law of Love. It is your divine nature pushes you a little elbow to keep you astray. In all cases, always guided by its heart center - and in your life will be good things.

Meditation will help you to relax your mind and you can hear the inner voice of super-consciousness. This is very important for your development. Every day, doing meditation, you can create a clean and open channel for communication with your Divine Essence - your best friend and mentor.

Meditation - it's not a "relaxation", is concentrated silence of the mind. It allows you to put together all your scattered energy to create a dish for the Divine.

Identifies daily for 20-30 minutes, preferably in the morning, before breakfast. If it is not possible, try to meditate at least on an empty stomach - digestion distracting. In addition, when the stomach is empty, your vibration above.

For meditation you need a quiet place where nobody will disturb your solitude. If possible, sit near the window overlooking the east, facing the rising sun. The back should be your line of the foot rest on the floor, so that energy can flow freely from the lower spine to the top of my head. Turn on soft music if it helps you disconnect from the outside world.

Repeat a phrase or just a word - "mantra" - that will help you gather all my thoughts together. Try to find words that will not cause your imagination in any way and with whom you have not linked any specific visual association: for example, "peace, love and harmony." The mantra that I recommend in my seminars, reads as follows: "I am god, god is me." The more often you will repeat these words, the more you'll be able to help her find a way to express the superconscious them in their lives.

Get rid of thoughts - stop thinking - at first it may be difficult.Persevere, and it pays off. As with physical training, the pain and awkwardness of the first lessons gradually take place. After a few days, weeks or months, you will find that you can not do without meditation.

While meditating, you will learn to turn off the mind and listen to the voice of super-consciousness. These minutes will bring you many beautiful and profound experience. Answers to urgent questions you need to come to you, and not necessarily during meditation. This can happen in the next hours or even days.

If, during meditation, you feel physically uncomfortable in any body part, just admit it and watch it. If you relax and acknowledge that the discomfort will disappear by itself.

You will fill such a love for your body, you'll feel a unity with it, which you could never imagine. You will begin to understand that the body - the house of your soul, and to express my gratitude, you will become better care of it. The body will get rid of accumulated stress - thank him for it.

Exercises

1. We list some behaviors that annoy you in other people.

2. Which of these features you see in yourself? If you will be honest enough with itself, the results may surprise you very much.

3. Admit to yourself these behaviors and ask yourself: 'What is this behavior to me? It gives me? "

3. Now make a list of what you admire in other people.

4. Which of these qualities you possess? Admit that they have in you, and understand that you deserve them. Allow yourself to be as talented and wonderful, like a man whom you admire.

5. Do not spare time trying to discover themselves, their abilities and talents. Go to this exciting journey with an open mind, accepting and loving yourself.

6. Remember: You are the manifestation of God. There is nothing but this divine perfection!

(Finally)

Russia. Bad places of the capital.

2012-01-03T07:14:00.001-08:00

Russia. Bad places of the capital.
Who will appoint another culprit disaster? There is in Moscow "black spots" where more often than usual place of the accident, and accidents. According to official sources of capital traffic police, the city recorded more than five hundred "Bermuda Triangle", where the sad persistence fighting machine and get run over pedestrians.

For the most part the causes of such accidents is well-known: the awkward intersections, lack of road signs and Navigation ... But some cases smack of this devilry. - This happened in late October - says a native Muscovite (formerly chemical engineer, now retired), Nikolai Listrat. - It was getting dark. I went on past the former Malaya Bronnaya Patriarch's Ponds, and suddenly felt the incomprehensible horror of the attack.

At the same time, my little old "Six" died out, but right in front of the hood out of the ground as if struck by a jet of steam. After that, figuratively speaking, I did score sweating with fear, as this hazy like a pillar in the headlights on a ghostly figure of a man. Specter repeatedly waved his arms and melted.

And in the sky floated chain of small glowing balls that look like soap bubbles. Cotton on his feet, I got out - on the road suddenly open sewage pit or something like that? .. But no, the front hood, smooth asphalt with no gaps and cracks. From the same pair, and the more fiery bubbles?

Returning home, long racked over it. And my wife as a joke: "This is Woland's back!" - And opened a volume of Bulgakov's front pages. I quote: "Berlioz covered unreasonable, but so great fear that he wanted to immediately run to the Patriarch without looking back. Berlioz looked around miserably, not realizing that it scared the ...

Then hot air is condensed in front of him, and this air is woven from transparent citizen very strange kind. "I understand that this is literature, and what happened to me - just a coincidence with that described in Bulgakov's episode, but still on the soul as something bad ... In place of the Patriarch's Ponds in the last century, the swamp was Goat, which has been notorious. Cabbies complain that the horses were there began to wheeze and "shunned by an unknown fear."

The reason for this discharge of marsh gas. Maybe still in the area of the Patriarch of the earth erupts methane? "Godforsaken zone," where in the capital of the usual cup of recorded various incidents really strange way, tied to a certain type of terrain.

Feely and Kutuzovsky take on the black list of inspectors for road safety is one of the first places. Meanwhile, as reported by some researchers of the Moscow toponymy, the name Feely came from the word "hvil" (puny, sickly). Is to be made once the floodplain rivers Hvilki which flowed through the southern outskirts of Moscow. Its dried and built up in the 30s.

Streets and Moss Ponizovsky (name speaks for itself) also hold the bar high for the number of road accidents, unexplained interruption of communication networks.

Swamp on the street were observed strange "ball lightning, flying from under the earth" (very similar to "fire bubbles", as described N. Listrat-vym). How did long ago dried up marshes are associated with accidents and mysterious phenomena? And the thing that they themselves are only a consequence of the deeper (in the truest sense of the word) of reasons.

Studies have shown geologists, Moscow stands on a network of ground faults, and over which rivers, streams, swamps and gullies are formed. Devices show that the edges of these faults "breathe" (constantly moving relative to each other), because there often are broken and pipelines and telephone cables. And not only ...

It is worth to recall the tragic incident that occurred December 25, 1967 in the street Osipenko. December 25, 1967 at approximately 21 hours 30 minutes: Moscow on the street Osipenko under the house number 77 Bldg. 1 one by one did not come for two powerful explosions. The five-storey building collapsed ^ turned into a pile of brittle-^. Many people have died (according to some data-| nym, about 200 people). Witnesses of those events ce-| fit almost gone, but the evidence to have survived. .. -

Gudkov, NI (house number 77, building 2., 5th floor): "I was watching TV. I dropped off the chair. TV jumped as if someone had tossed. Bulged out in the floor boards up. Locker did not fall, but unfolded. I put on boots to go out, then again ... windows shook in our house even knocked on the opposite side of the explosion on the street ... met a man - is holding his head. He said that it was thrown together with a couch with the fifth floor. Some residents threw very well - to (Krasnokholmsky) bridge. ... It was terrifying, "

Drozdov AI (house number 77, Bldg. 2, 2nd floor): "I was washing. Suddenly the water rose from the tub and splashed along with the laundry. I bounced and hit the wall. Vspuchilsya Sex in the bathroom. The room fell refrigerator, TV, chest of drawers ... Son hit the door and thrown into the hallway ... Part of the neighboring housing was destroyed. Some blocks thrown to the surrounding streets with residents. People were hanging on the trees. A woman with a balcony tossed on the Garden Ring ... "

A special commission to investigate the tragic incident, the workers put forward several conjectures: sabotage, bombing, a survivor of the war ... As a result, it was concluded: "There has been an explosion of gas ..."

"This version, for which, incidentally, have become ubiquitous in Moscow install electric cookers, far-fetched - says researcher E. Barkov-sky. - The investigation did not wish to draw attention to the many mysterious effects, it is impossible for the ordinary explosion. In disaster area for a few moments as if gravity had disappeared.

According to eyewitnesses, who saw the explosion itself, the line break at home fell slightly above the first floor. All that was higher, rose into the air, stuck, and only then, crashing, fell apart. One of the residents in some way was thrown at Krasnokholmsky bridge and did not get with no damage. He later died of a heart attack.

There have also been registered and other cases of "soft landing" of people dropped from a considerable distance. Some residents of the survivors of the first floor apartments have argued that the explosion lifted them to the ceiling, while a shock wave in their private rooms and undefeated ns could be no question ...

Another interesting fact which did not want to take into account in its findings the commission: they blew up the house was built on the site of the bakery, which in the 30s also was mysteriously destroyed almost completely collapsed under the earth ... "Yevgeny Barkovsky, a geophysicist by profession could not ignore these peculiarities. He suggested that a gas explosion totally nothing to do with the cause of the disaster on the street served as Osipenko processes in the Earth's interior, the house stood on the fault in the geopathic zone.

Later studies have confirmed this conjecture. According to the assumptions of some researchers in geophysics, events like the emergency Street Osipenko, due to local seismic tremors - gravity blasts. The cause of these explosions, earthquakes, is "the spontaneous discharge of energy mineral resources of the earth faults ...".

Map of Moscow, which marked the line of known faults and crustal delineated potentially dangerous places, where there may be the mysterious "explosion" has long existed. Under the scheme it is clear that one of the anomalous zones, for example, should be manifested in the metro station, "Glade". And life has proved the validity of predictions of scientists.

July 25th, 1988 at Big Polyanka collapsed school building number 583. Eyewitnesses from the next house show:

"Balcony has been opened, - said the former military AN Zykov. - I distinctly heard a subterranean noise. I thought that now something will happen, and went to the balcony to watch. Here rocked the house, and the school became a crumbling wall. Did an earthquake?. . "

"It was on the balcony - says 3. Zabotina - There was a noise, a few seconds later an explosion, then boomed - the wall fell schools. Bricks were flying to the metro station" Glade. "How could they fly off so far? .."

"Distinctly heard an explosion - showed Ivanova, - swaying chandeliers, dishes rattled ... These explosions occurred in the past, sometimes it flares - probably at the plant blew something ..."

NGO "Astrophysics", that have sinned Iva M. - new, no relation to the explosions did not have. In her story, another important detail - such "explosions" in the area already visiting. And most importantly, it is not over. May 16, 1991 approximately 22 hours 21 minutes in a powerful explosion Staromonetny lane reversal house number 36 - is just 60 meters from the school № 583.Again, witnesses told the strange thing: there was an underground buzz, the impetus, with a bridge over a large area and dust rose very long time to settle down ...

In 1997, an earthquake in a strange road enthusiasts. Broken gas pipe. According to eyewitnesses, some cars thrown into the air to great heights ... In the basement of the alleged doma'-hearth blast - there were a lot of flammable items, including stacks of paper.All that remained intact. Consequently, the bomb exploded is not - or certainly would start a fire.

The investigation led the Moscow prosecutor's office, but there have not been able to explain the strange movement of objects in space fell from fixtures and flew home to another lattice fence (because of its tiny "sail", it can not be attributed to the impact of the shock wave). By a strange paths through the roof of the neighboring houses scattered bricks ...

Inexplicably massive damage to windows in the building of the DCS, which from the shock wave are securely covered with a wall ... "For some reason, no one thought that all these wonders guiltily earthquake - told us, candidate of geological-mineralogical sciences I. Yanits-cue. - Meanwhile, many point to natural causes" explosion "in Staromonetny Lane.

After a few days in the vicinity of the destroyed house in the land there were some failures. One of them - in the courtyard of the notorious school № 583. And revealed cracks in the asphalt, and piping breaks ... Testimony confirms the strange phenomenon of gravity changes at the points of local earthquakes. There is evidence that in the area of large-scale earthquakes such changes also occur.

During the Spitak earthquake, according to eyewitnesses, the air rose and crashed sods, houses, people, buses and even a tank, who turned over the crack ... In Kazakhstan in 1990, an earthquake thousands of tons of water rose out of Lake Zaisan-ray ...

The facts of severe gravitational pulses recorded during disasters witnessed repeatedly. But in the formal scientific reports, they do not fall - too incredible, and, most importantly, are inexplicable in terms of the prevailing geophysical theories that deny the possibility of local earthquakes, damaging only one home.

Meanwhile, the gravitational processes can explain the strange destruction, and so absolutely fantastic eyewitness accounts of change in the weight of objects. But if gravity blasts on conventional science still doubts the reality "fire bubbles" arising in the bowels of the earth, has been recognized. According to modern science, energy can be released tectonic stress not only through the earthquake, but the form of electromagnetic radiation and the linear and ball lightning.

The annual environmental Gazette, which is issued in Novosibirsk, says that many fireballs, silent outbreaks observed in recent years over the city - a consequence of activation of the local network faults of crystalline rocks.

These "balls" that rise along faults, it is able to turn off the ignition automobile engines and cause an accident affecting the driver cut the phone cord to blow up gas pipeline - in other words, they (as, indeed, any zipper) can mess things up in a lot of troubles. All the more so that no engineering construction in Moscow is not designed for it and such blows out of the ground is not expected

Consider yourself healthy

2012-01-03T07:11:00.001-08:00

Jill Edwards

Consider yourself healthy

One mystical wisdom says: "We create our own body." The so-called "solid" of our reality (which, according to modern physics, is an illusion) - just energy, vibrating in accordance with our minds. Everything in the world (including our bodies) is a byproduct of our consciousness. But this puts our logical assumptions about a world turned upside down! This means that our health and well-being reflect what happens in our head. As Deepak Chopra says: "The cells in our body are constantly listening and our thoughts are changed in accordance with them."Thus, if we love life, appreciate your body and look forward to good health, we send positive messages to every cell, and our bodies, biochemistry, and immune systems begin to function at its best.

Carl Simonton, known for his hollisticheskim approach to the problem of cancer, found that the expectation of full recovery was the best predictor of successful outcome of the disease, despite its seriousness. In other words, those who kept saying to myself that gets better - and believe it! - Actually had a much better chance of recovery. Moreover, since the consciousness of all people are interconnected, then, if we rely on the health of our loved ones or that they get better, take on a momentum that its effect. (For a fascinating exploring the power of prayer and its application in medicine, read the book, Larry Dossey «Healing Words», Harper Collins, 1993.)

From the perspective of deep reality, health or illness related to a person as a whole, not just his body. Studies have proven that the "split personality" can be a single person with diabetes, and another person, being in the same body that has no signs of this disease! One person may suffer from epilepsy or have allergies to certain substances, and the other at the same time remains quite healthy. Even the scars and warts can appear and disappear when a person moves to another! This suggests that the body is not frozen, objective reality, it is created by our changing thoughts, emotions and personality.

According to the biomedical model, disease is a simple dysfunction of the body without any reason or purpose. And the experts handle it with medication, surgery or lucheterapii. Since the body and mind are considered separately, modern medicine has little do with personality, considering it a miserable appendage to the disease. It's not that the biomedical model is wrong, it is simply too restricted theory. She contributed to the development of pharmaceuticals and medical technology, but only at the expense of proper understanding of what the disease means a person and as a cue creates health.

In 1992, Brandon Beyz was diagnosed with a tumor in the pelvic area the size of a soccer ball. Doctors insisted on immediate surgery, but she decided that would recover without surgery. It's only six and a half weeks, and doctors were forced to recognize that the patient is absolutely healthy, and the tumor was gone. It is not used any drugs, no surgery, no lucheterapiya. If we are willing to take responsibility for their health and to openly admit their problems, then we can heal itself from almost any illness.

Each year, 98 percent of the atoms of our body are replaced.Even the cells of the skeleton are updated every three months.Therefore, to be patient, we need to make new healthy cells get sick! Instead, we can consciously create health. It may sound surprising, but, says Deepak Chopra, at the level of quantum reality, "all in your body can be changed according to your wishes."

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