Sergei Jagdish:
Find your dominant.
The main source of human misery - in the artificiality of his interactions with life. Endless compromises, not allowing to see themselves in the mirror of reality, to say, "Oh! Here it is me, this is who I am in fact "The number of masks is so great that it is impossible to define itself in reality. The habit of playing the role of a person to bring a state of complete ignorance as to their true desires and the true purpose of his life. In nature, everything is very balanced and quite clearly, as defined by each person in his life. But apart from this certainty, God gave man the limitless ability of psychological defense, through which people survive, even playing no role. He is paying the price with their health and the health of people close to him. When people ask me how to find my program, I recommend them at least a week to use the "principle of reflection." This principle allows to remove the protective mechanisms and hunt down the central motivation of the person. It is a gradual method in which you open a sense of feeling, accumulating power of the true desires.
"The principle of reflection" - a complete indulgence of all my desires and weaknesses. Usually we keep ourselves in his hands, control your life, your job. It comes in such a fixed habit that blocks the energy of the true motivation. Indulging your senses and petty desires, we will gradually remove our terminals, allowing you to escape alive feelings out.
Of course, this method can be practiced only mentally healthy people who are not prone to violence or crime. Choose a comfortable week, maybe you just want a single day - all of this happens in different ways. From early morning start to satisfy all the desires and thoughts that come to your mind. Suddenly you want to eat a product that you did not eat, or meet a handsome man, or, finally, to say that you think your colleagues. If you have decided on an experiment, feel free to exercise their desires. You may want to see some incredible movies, or spend some time among the people, as you did not seem to your environment. Allow yourself to these little pranks, without losing control. In my experience, there have been cases when famous people after such practices changed his job and becomes a regular state employees and were extremely happy. In general, the main motto of the principle of reflection - not overwhelming! If you want to know yourself, give up the habit of suppressing, experience their emotions completely and totally. Special mention should be given to the negative emotions that arise in the practice with respect to other people. If someone hurts you, causing anger, disgust, sadness or joy, look at this. Anything that annoys you, gives you a signal to an understanding. Stimulus and an unconscious element. Maybe the person annoys you because you want to be like him, but do not find this strength? Or you need to become stronger than him? Or, if you have something happy, and you're afraid it might be wise to do that? The principle was called the reflection principle, because all the attention is directed to those factors that reflect your emotions. There is no anger without internal causes irritation and is not calling for action.
On the energy level, all this is just the work of our energy shell. Therefore, a specialist will not be difficult to find your thought, just looking for your soul. But it will be his job. And no matter who you work with, most importantly, how do you work with them yourself! Only own work on his own "I" changes a person. Therefore, we recommend to practice this principle. And if you do not one, but a group of like-minded people, you can help each other. First, just ask what you think about other people. Ask what they notice you have a mask, even more interesting to ask strangers to guess your profession or social status. Their opinion can greatly expand your perception for a new one.
Or you can ask your friends close my eyes, visualizing you. And to ask, what exactly do you miss? Let them express their feelings caught in your soul. Anyway, watching his reaction at his reflection of reality, you will find those aspects of life that you are completely suppressed. If you find them, you can significantly supplement their lives with positive emotions, thus harmonize their energy shell.
Until a man finds his true desires, he can not find happiness. When those desires are found, they are transforming human, revealing its purpose completely. He will not have to spend a force for survival, the desires themselves will give him strength. The reflection principle: There is no anger without internal reasons, and irritation, not a call to action. Stimulus is an unconscious element....