Louise Hay:
ORDER OF SPACE KITCHEN
When you say the first affirmation, you can not believe it. But remember that affirmations are like the seed thrown into the ground. The plant does not grow out of it one day. We must patiently wait for a while. Continue to say affirmations and be willing to let go of all the trouble. Affirmations will be a reality for you and open new perspectives. Maybe you will visit unexpectedly brilliant idea, and maybe you'll call a friend and ask: "What did you try?" Life will tell you what to do.
Keep your affirmations always ready. You can have them sing like a song, or just repeat myself again and again. Remember that you can not influence the actions of specific people to help with your affirmations. Stating: "John loves me," so we try to take control of another person. It is possible boomerang effect. You will become very unhappy, not having received of the dream. You may say, "I loved a lovely person who ..." and list the qualities you look for in a personal relationship. In that case, you allow the inner strength to find the right person for you that meets all your requirements. Quite possibly, it will be John.
You do not know where the ways of the spiritual development of another person, and you have no right to interfere in other people's lives. And certainly would not want someone did this on to you. If someone is sick, send him his blessing and love, wish him luck. Do not demand an immediate recovery.
I like to think that affirmations - this is an order, which we refer to outer kitchen. When you go to a restaurant and order something, you do not run after the waiter or waitress to see how to prepare your order. You sit quietly, sipping water, coffee or tea, or conversing with his friend, or perhaps chewing a bun. You know that the dish is currently in progress and will soon be applied to the table. Now imagine that the same thing applies to the affirmations.
Ordering something in outer kitchen, we sought help from the great master - my Higher Power. We continue to live their daily lives, knowing that everything taken care of. And so it happens. Incidentally, if you bring in a restaurant is not what you ordered, you are sending the dish back. Of course, if you have a sense of dignity. If not, you eat submitted. Similarly, and with the cosmic kitchen. Let's say you have not what they wanted. You have the right to say, "No, it's not. I want that." Probably, this is the first time not clearly explain what you want.
The basic idea is the same - the art of letting go. At the end of my studies and meditation, I always say, "so be it."
This is equivalent to the words: "A higher power, and now everything is in your hands. I give it to you."
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