Paul Ferrini

Open the door

To draw attention to the person or situation, you need to be present to yourself in the other person and the situation. To attend, you must give up your own program.

If you must assume, the other person or the situation in general, any expectations, you will not be able to devote all his time to the current account.

Your ability to be attentive depends on how open your mind is, how it is free of judgments and expectations.

No less important to have an open heart, which requires compassion for self and others, the ability to forgive what happened in the past.

Have an open heart - then look at the other as equals, seek common ground, to seek intimacy and fellowship with them.

The door that leads to love, opens and closes every time you open and close their minds and hearts. When the door is closed, you need to be patient and merciful, otherwise it may never be opened.

Must be able to detect not only the presence of love, but its absence. Feeling her presence, a man learns to listen and soften your heart. Giving a conscious of the fact that it moves away from the people, it is taught for a notice even the mildest form of condemnation.

Any experience of alienation or condemnation - it is an opportunity to open up to the presence of love. From the point of view of consciousness, it means a departure from the established perception and its justification.

Emotionally same respect, it means the ability to feel the effects of fragmentation - his own pain and the pain of another.

The essence of healing - in the transition from condemnation to acceptance, of separation, of empathy. Failure to make such a transition, creating conditions for a body-spiritual discomfort.

All you need to start learning to move from anxiety to peace, from closed to open, from distrust to trust.

We must learn to remain calm, transforming "defensive" reaction to the reaction of "acceptance", to show the harmony in the relationship, making the "exclusion" of thought and action in the "enveloping".

Being a healer or miracle worker - is to recognize characteristics of each, the ability to be free from conflict of guilt, the condemnation and accusations.

Recognizing in yourself the ability, you yavish miracles in your life, just as I did.

I have said many times that you can do it. Healing is not only possible, it is necessary. Each of you is a healer of their own grievances and injustices endured, each a living testimony to the power of a miracle.

Healing - the only thing you stay here. The sooner you understand this, the better.

Remember, please, that all genuine spiritual practices start with training of self-love and self-acceptance. Do not try to love other people, before you learn to love yourself. It will not work.

When in your life, there is a person acting on your nerves, do not try to love that person. Just do not scold him. Do not blame, do not blame, do not make an enemy of him.

Only, admit that he is acting on your nerves, and choose the time to be alone with your feelings.

Secluded, remind yourself that everything is experienced belongs only to you. The other person does not have anything to do with your feelings. Free yourself from any thoughts that place him responsible for what you feel.

Then, when he was alone with his feelings, saying, "What I feel is showing me some own features, which I condemn. But I want to learn how to make all of its features. I want to learn to give love to the wounded part of my self. "

Now you come to the threshold of genuine change. Now you're ready to let love into your heart.

Practice again and again and be patient. Do not try to heal their fellows and the world before you learn to bring love into your own heart. Such attempts are doomed to failure, and you'll be only further condemn himself.

Learn how to exercise compassion. Progressing slowly. Lecha own thoughts and feelings. Whenever you are cured of condemning thoughts or feelings of disunity, every mind and every heart in the universe feel it. Healing is not just you, but all people.

When you gain peace, he took firm root in the world. And if you have any obligations to others, it is only this: to calm his own heart and mind.

Some may consider such advice selfish and irresponsible. They believe that to gain happiness, must save the world. This is an error of perception. If they do not first find happiness, the world is doomed.

Maybe it's hard for you to hear, but it's true. While you will not feel happy now, you will never find happiness in the future. So if you are not happy now, do not even try to look for happiness in the future, and to direct all attention to the present moment. That's where your happiness.

Open heart and an open mind - it is a door that leads to the abode of love. Even when the door is closed, love invites you to discover it. Even when you judge others and feel detached from them, love is calling to you from the inside.

I have already said, no matter how many times you may be refused to enter the sanctuary, you only knock - and the door opens. And I said, Ask, and it shall be given you, but you refuse to believe me.

Do you think that someone is due to your sins, moments of indecision or unruly, but this - not so. The only one who counts it all - you are.

I tell you, brother: stop counting, stop finding excuses, stop pretending that the door is locked.

I'm here on your doorstep. Reach out and find my own, and we'll open the door and go into it together. I love the seven doors unconditionally. Going into it, you too will become a door.

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