Paul Ferrini

Get rid of poor thinking

Thinking beggar comes from the idea that you are not worthy of love. If you do not feel worthy of love, you're in this world there will always be something missing. You're going to see the glass as half empty, instead of seeing it as half full.

If you see the glass as half empty, then do not be surprised if soon there would be nothing left. Sense of deprivation - is the result of negative perceptions. Of course, the same principle works in reverse.

Try to see the glass as half full - and soon it will be filled to the brim. Knowing that you are worthy of love, you gain a tendency to see in the words and deeds of others an act of love.

It is difficult to offend you. If someone is rude, you let the possibility that this man turned out to be a bad day. You do not feel like a victim or a victim of injustice.

Attitude depends on you feeling worthy of love, worthy or unworthy.

In any case, the situation around you you formiruesh so that it strengthens your opinion of yourself.

Insatiable desire to stock up for the future tend to someone who is living in the past. Sense of deprivation - it's just the memory of old wounds. These things are very easy to project to the future.

To get rid of poor thinking, you need to let go of the past with the world. Whatever it was, now it does not matter. You gave him leave, and it will no longer have any effect.

You feel slighted? If so, then you will project this deprivation is in their lives. Disadvantaged will be the only one who feels excluded.

To get rid of poor thinking, to realize first that you feel with yourself unfair treatment. Realise that your cause is a deep sense of inferiority. Understand that you do not feel worthy of love right now.

Do not try to change your thoughts. Do not repeat, "I am worthy of love right now" in the hope that it will help to change your situation.

Just realize, "I do not feel worthy of love right now. I feel unworthy. I feel that with me being abused. I fear that bad happens to me in the past will be repeated again. "

Just realize how tense and contracted your heart. Realize how froze all your senses. And ask yourself: Are you more security now?

Did you get the information, and you had a choice to see it as a negative or a positive. You decided to see the glass as half empty. You picked the victim.

Okay. No need to be ashamed of. No need to strain even more. No need to tear himself. Just realize that the chosen and as a result felt. Seeing this, and let go with peace.

"I see, what choice did I see that makes me feel bad. I do not want to be miserable, so I will make a different choice. I see the glass as half full. "

If you can utter such words, keeping the emotional integrity, then let go of the past itself, and with it the pain will go away and the wound. Try it. This account the ops.

You have a lot of practice to be a victim, and learned well the role. Do not think that inflexibility comes without practice. Just realize your choice to be a victim and wish to get rid of. This will be enough.

Thinking rich - this is when you feel loved and worthy right now.

(To be continued)

 

My friend turned to me with a "big request" to take $ 300, was very apologetic, as if it was about a huge amount, and I'm happy to help out, because I have no problem with money.

My second one is with great disappointment say that the employer failed to pay semi-annual premium and all goes to the fact that there will be a Christmas.

Third, when talking about the holiday told that he could be let go for only 2 weeks, 4 weeks to take not accepted.

How long will you still tolerate a situation where some man (your manager), a protege of another uncle (founder) is for you to decide how much and when you relax and how much you should charge for your work?

It's just shameful situation for adults! Someone smart once very long ago decided that you need to work 8 hours, and grab another for half an hour to show loyalty to his master and get a gift card or a birthday.

Someone smart decided I needed to rest no more than 4 weeks, preferably two weeks in a year, and even better not to rest at all.

It is normal to get to work during the morning and evening hours, in traffic, in the crush of the metro.

 

How much you will enjoy the small but stable zarplatke, insignificant premium to the New Year and needy birthday present that same uncle picked out by you earned money?

It is time to become more independent, and the first step you need to do it today!