Paul Ferrini

Give up the effort

Everything that happens in your life, is neutral - neither positive nor negative. You yourself decide how much your life is positive or negative, spiritual or earthly.

Love, acceptance and forgiveness can inspire in this life. Even deadly disease, rape or murder can be transformed by the power of love.

You feel like you know what was going on in your life events. More confusing hard to imagine. You do not understand the meaning of what is happening - just because imposed on all invented thee same meaning.

If you really want to understand the meaning of what is happening, come on give it a fictional sense. Let me be the situation for what it is. Feel it fully. Let her give you a lesson, for which she came into your life.

If you want to get to the very essence of the situation, ask yourself, "How can she teach me a more universal love? That it requires to pay out of that for which I still hold? "

This question will lead you to the main problem, because it demonstrates your willingness to look at this situation as a gift, not a punishment.

Empowering situation contrived sense, you will always see it as punishment for yourself or someone else. Your fear makes it to any event occurring in your life.

Fear of a verdict and you, and your fellow man. Do not be surprised when it happens. This is to be expected.

Seek not to live without fear. Trying to live without fear - the worst thing that you can imagine. Just admit fear and go through it to the other side.

Do not try to live without judging ourselves or others. You just have to see this is the condemnation, and move through it to forgiveness.

That the choice exists, does not mean that you should choose. Just look at the choice and allow your awareness to hold you through it.

There is nothing that you could do to ensure his salvation. Essentially, all you're doing, just keeping you discover what is already there.

Salvation is here. You have already saved. You do not have to buy salvation for me, my brother, in a church or a synagogue.

You forgive, not in order to buy a rescue, but because it allows you to experience the forgiveness of salvation right here and right now.

You learn to accept what is happening as a gift, not because it brings you points for good deeds before God, but because it reminds you, there is nothing wrong and never has been.

You learn to recognize those moments when you start to close and push people, because you know: be kind, receptive and open - nice.

All your spirituality exists only in this very moment. It has nothing to do with what you thought or felt in the past. This is happening now, under the circumstances in which you were.

Do you feel the darkness and handicap only when unhappy situation prevailing at the time. If you're seeing a particular situation, be grateful for it, you feel only bliss.

Do not try to get out of the darkness. Do not try to enter into bliss. Movement happens by itself. Just be ready for it and let this willingness to carry you.

Much of what you're trying to do for themselves, will not be successful, because you do not know who you really are. A self limited.

You do not know or do not feel, to what extent God loves you. You think that you are in something is seriously broken, or perhaps just something missing. But it is - a lie. Nothing is broken. You're quite right now is holistic.