Colleagues
How much trouble is happening to our Russian man because in his mind has no concept of "co-worker! That is, a person with whom connected only official and business relations.
People associated with us in the case, karma is closer than mere acquaintances. But they in no way be confused with friends and relatives. Otherwise, be very hurt and business relationships and friendships, and family. Not to mention the fact that the case itself may crumble into dust.
Interaction with peers can only go on the equivalent exchange. Personal relationships associated with compassion, with material support, with the understanding the plight of the "highly undesirable. If an employee asks for a further indulgence, someone asks to work instead of him, because he had problems, took all the money "to pay", gives, then takes over, then he should just change something in their lives dramatically. Such a situation is not normal.
Moment energopodpitki partner in business should go only for the cause, and even then it should not be permanently. The moment any negative interactions should ideally be absent, and in any case minimized.
Business Partner we take this for what it is, but take into account its peculiarities in the process. But if he does not suit us, we look for another, and yet there is no other, adapt to what we have. This is an area where justified purely pragmatic approach. Good work - good money. Poor work - learn to work better.
The venerable lady, the director of a shoe store, "for friendship" takes his daughter to his high school girlfriend. The girl has no special education, carelessly refers to the work, she went to work only because my mother put her condition: either you work or you will have no money for new clothes.
By coincidence, the girl gets into a situation where it becomes the cause of great trouble. The store, impeccable commercial workers, nearly put on trial. All in shock. School friend becomes an hated enemies.
Yet to blame only myself respectable lady. Do not bother me all my life in one pile! Keep on working only bona fide workers, whose relatives would they are. Business relations should only be built on a business basis. But the lady has not been fully realized his mistake, because the conclusion that she has learned from the lesson, read: do not do good to people. She again blamed it all in one pile.
The two partners engaged in joint business. One "out of friendship" asked the special conditions (well, it should be!), Another "out of friendship" could not refuse. Then the first right in stating that he was the chief, since he now had a greater stake in their business. Naturally, there was a misunderstanding, in which everyone was right in his own way. Wrong was only one thing: in their dealings crept friendship, and this is completely different energy. And now people have become enemies, but could still be a long time friends and partners. But they do not distinguish between two spheres of interaction and therefore does not understand "each other.
"Friendship is friendship, money - apart" - Russian proverb. And another adds: "The better the score, the stronger friendship. What we learn only in school!
One man in his gardening appealed to different employees with requests. And some of it laid the fire, others have built an addition, a third dug a well.
Every Russian knows the tradition: agreed, and sat down, drank, shook hands, paid a "avanets", and there - as God sends. Our friend had a different opinion. With each employee, he concluded a contract in two copies, both parties to sign. Cash at the end of work.
And no one was not offended, though tried to violate the agreement: they say, everything was more complicated and need more money. But the guy poking his nose into the contract: the money is finished and there is no end of work - no money. And reluctantly workers carried out their contract.
Of course, such a meticulous person disliked, and even laughed at the "eccentricity", too is "not in our opinion, but respected, because it is energetically correct business.
Anyone who wants to work honestly, always says: "Yes, that's correct." And only those who are looking for a kind of "snatch" is not working always adds: "Well, maybe not always so ..." But this is so. All friendship, and family relations should only be out of work.
On the colleague ends "series" of people far and even strangers. Our close friend and even my brother can be both a co-worker. The business relationship we build with him as a stranger, all the friends and family feeling will not deal with cases.
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