Paul Ferrini

The ability to use what is

To do something significant in my life, not necessarily reinvent the wheel. Look around you - and you will find many ways to express themselves.

None of them is perfect. Some make you adapt. And it was good. Need to be able to adapt. That's right - understand that the same can be said to do differently.

If you try for a perfect shape - a perfect job, perfect relationship - then you will always be disappointed. The world can not ensure perfection in this sense.

It just offers everyone the opportunity to grow and change, which is not difficult if you're not tied to a form of expression.

Use the form that is available to you at this time. Free yourself from prejudice. Every moment new. Each situation calls for something special.

Attachment to what to say or do something a certain way - is the fetters of time. Such devotion attracts you to the past. It locks you inside a false identity.

Every experience is occurring in your way, raises the question, do you desire to free themselves, want to believe, if you wish to go beyond time.

If you are not tied to the form, then go beyond the time easily. You focus the on the present, the eternal "now". Whatever happens, it will require of thee full attention.

But are there many of which are fully present in what is going on? Most of you are busy assessing what is happening, looking for flaws in it, the desire to make it look so, as they expected.

In other words, you cling to the wrong image of his personality. Trying to bring this into line with the past.

Try to honestly answer the question: do you want measured, predictable life? This is exactly what you want? If yes, then you should realize that this world can not afford.

All the world is constantly changing. There is nothing permanent. Nothing is predictable.Security can only be temporary. Thoughts come and go. Relationships arise and come to an end. The bodies are born and die.

The only thing you can offer the world - volatility, growth, change.

At the level of form constancy does not exist. Any form is essentially a distortion of the original formlessness of the universe. That includes everything, take everything, loves everyone, not be limited to the form.

Love does not choose any subject of love, or the moment of its manifestation. Love extends to all at all times. Love is unconditional: it is, shall we say, "devoid of form."

Does this mean that you can not experience love in this world? Of course not! However, the experience of love will be weakened in direct proportion to your needs in its interpretation, or control over it.

The interpretation imposes conditions that should not have conditions. Putting the conditions of love, you feel the conditions, not love. You're dealing with form rather than content.

Love manifests itself only through an open heart. And the openness of the heart - is not technology, and emotional commitment that goes beyond definable concepts.

As soon as each form is changing, the heart without fear opens its changing content.

If you want to understand something in this world, learn to see beyond the form of creative intent. Tune in to the intent behind what makes the other person, and you will understand that this activity means to him.

And when you look only at the bare form, you see only what it means for you.

"To see what is behind the form" - the same thing "to see what is beyond your own prejudices."

To see a fellow for what he really is, you need to go beyond the boundaries of their own judgments about it.

To find it, approach it, open your heart and ask, what are his intentions. The only way you can understand it.

When a person's intentions change, expressing the change of shape. If you become more sensitive to their own intentions, and intentions of other people, you will be better prepared to change shape.

Non-attachment to the form is not born as a result of alienation from the people, as a result of closer relations with them. It is impossible to achieve non-attachment, keeping away from people.

The result will be exactly the opposite. Only allowing the other to the heart, you gain the ability to get rid of them.

Compassion and detachment go hand in hand. It is impossible to love someone and at the same time, trying to control it.

Just wanting to fellow what is best for him, you give him his freedom. And without giving him freedom, you do not give him love.

Attachment to form stems from the deepest feelings of insecurity. You can not fully understand it until you get out beyond the attachment. But such a solution is imminent. It is programmed life.

Any situation in life gives you the opportunity to achieve a greater intimacy and greater freedom. When you harder and stronger than love, more and more people, then attached to each individual person is reduced.

You do not become attached to a specific person, but to the love that each of them extends to you. You are approaching the experience of Divine Love, which is located outside the body, and in essence - beyond any form.

Calling to use any form available at the moment, I beg you to be flexible and responsive.Please go to the level of intent.

I ask you to go to the next, without trying, in this case, to determine or control. If you do this, you'll never be limited by form or obsessed by it. You will find the freedom to create spontaneously.

This is the best advice, which I can give you. Stay in the present, expecting nothing, not caring about the outcome.

Do not complain about the form that is provided to you, and did not give it more importance than it has. Perfection is impossible without you.

If you want to find the truth, look inside. Look at your own intentions. Then, you can certainly understand the intentions of another person.