LIABILITY AGAINST THE GUILT

Louise Hay: 

LIABILITY AGAINST THE GUILT 

     I believe that we largely define the conditions of our lives - both good and bad - with the help of models of perception and thought. We focus on a particular thought, the thought is feeling. Our life begins to build - us! - In tune with these feelings and beliefs. You can not blame myself for something in our life spiraled out of control. But between guilt (as well as the desire to impose on other cross) and a sense of responsibility there is a big difference. 

     When I talk about responsibility, I mean the possession of power. Wine spends force in vain, wasting it. In contrast, gives us the responsibility to effect change in their lives.When we play the role of martyr, we use personal power to be powerless. But when taking a decision to take responsibility, we stop wasting time foolishly, blaming people and circumstances. 

Exactly what HAS TO OUR RELATIONS. Some people feel guilty because of illness, poverty, some problems. They prefer to interpret the sense of responsibility as guilt. (Some journalists call this "guilt complex New Age.") People of this type the weight of time to do anything blame themselves, see themselves as underdogs finished. However, they tend to blame and others. This is another way to emphasize their inferiority. In his arguments, I mean not that complex. 

     If we use the swap problems and illness as an opportunity for understanding the changes that are needed in their lives, then we have the power. Many people have experienced some kind of accident or serious illness been ill, remember these events as the most remarkable in his life: that they gave them a chance to start a new life. Conversely, many falling sick, they say, "Oh, woe is me, martyr! Doctor, heal me soon." It seems to me that these people are waiting for hard times ahead: they will be able to get better or solve their problems. 

     ACCOUNTABILITY - is our ability to react to situations.We always have a choice. This does not mean that we do not want to face the truth and admit it. Selection has nothing to do with the denial of the real situation. It just means that we recognize that played a role in the formatting of the circumstances. Taking responsibility, we have to allow their inner strength to change our lives. It can and should ask: "What can I do to change things?" We must realize that we all have enormous reserves of inner, personal power. It all depends on how we use it. 

     All the events that occurred in your life so far, been the result of your thoughts and beliefs that come from the past. 

     Let's stop looking back, burning with shame. Look at the past as a rich life experience. Without this experience, you would not be here today. And pet grounds for self-flagellation. That with the fact that you are somewhere that is not completely laid? You did everything we could and as they could. Release the past with love, be grateful for the fact that it has led you to such realization. 

     The past exists only in our minds. We perceive it through a prism is important that moment, we are going through right now, what we do and feel in this moment. What we are doing today will form the foundation of tomorrow. Thus, it is best right now to make a decision. We can not do anything tomorrow, and even more so - today ... Just for today. It is important that we take right now - what thoughts, beliefs and words. 

     When we begin to consciously change our feelings and thoughts, we learn everything you need for this change. Let this sounds too simple, for remember the source of power - in the moment.