Give your problems carefree time
I like to use a carefree time as follows: I give him my problems to be solved! If you have some sort of problem that you saw on all sides, analyzing and trying to find a way out, but still no solution is found it just need to give carefree time.
My husband and I suffered more than a year on how to solve the problem with housing. We are removing the old house (he is over 400 years!) With a huge wonderful garden in the heart of the Lake district. This house was close to us, but we would like to have your own, so we gradually reimbursed its cost, but did not pay for life rather decent amount for his rent every month. Moreover, we both had a dream that comes from the heart: to have more and a second home in Cornwall! We examined several suitable homes in the Lake district, and the heart we have contracted from the enormous amount that would have to pay for such beauty! In addition, we are so accustomed to his house that we really did not want to move to another house. With regard to this issue, we have not been able to find out why feel very bad.
Then I gave this matter carefree time, and within a few days at my ripe magic answer: "Stay in your home where you live now, and buy a cottage in Cornwall. Thus, you can calmly settle grown fond of you rented the house, and, moreover, have their own means, a house, which will also be able to enjoy. And all this will cost much less than if you were buying a house in the Lake district. (Our rational thinking for some reason decided that we must become the owners of the first house, before deciding to buy a second one.) Now taken me a solution seems obvious to us both, but at the moment it looks like the most real revelation. Shortly thereafter, we really got a very nice white cottage in Cornwall.
Our rational, analytical mind, who is only ten percent of the brain, designed to cope with the limited number and range of problems and solutions. If you want, for example, to reconstruct the attic in a house or buy a new computer, the rational mind immediately to help. He will offer options, weigh the pros and cons and will give their own decision. He's amazing and in the planning, organization or action.
However, more complex questions of life rarely Are subject to rational thinking. Why can not I find a life partner? What is the aim and purpose of my life? How do I save a marriage? Why do I suddenly appeared just this health problem? Why do I never have money? These questions are our ten percent of the brain do not find an answer. We begin to analyze the problem, come to a standstill and there stuck.
The rule is: if you are trying to combat the problem, you are having a hard time, so stop! Your "ninety percent" have access to much more extensive information than your ego. You can come to creative solutions, sometimes even into strange shapes, and it happens that you'll be able to solve some difficult problems simultaneously.
To pass the problem to solve carefree time, believe that the solution to any problem always exists. Then admit that until this decision that you do not know, and then your rational mind will cease to fight with her. Stop the senseless fighting and say: "I bring this issue carefree time. Or write your question on a sheet of paper and put it in a specially reserved space for this kind of problem that should be decided by a carefree time.
Secondly, be patient. Sometimes the answer came to me with incredible speed, five minutes later, but more often it had to wait hours, days or even weeks. (The fact that our "90 percent" do not operate in linear time, and make a decision instantly. Postponement also depends only on us!) After some time, you can cry out: "Aha!" That's it! "Or feel like in you is awakened awareness of how the same should be the right thing. This will happen when you're ready to hear a response, or when will the right time, or if you're more likely to engage in idle or nicer things solely for my own pleasure. Often the solution is simple and obvious, just for some reason before it will never occur to him. Here, too, the magic carefree time.
I believe that the solution always exists.
/ D. Edwards /
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