Throw away your addiction
We live in a society where people have very quickly produced all sorts of "chronic" attachment and addiction. Society itself encourages us to seek happiness elsewhere, but not inside (it resembles the search for God in places where it simply does not happen). Most of us have at least one such painful affection, almost inseparable from modern life: someone who works almost round the clock without a break, someone addicted to alcohol or drugs, someone to overeat. Others, by contrast, are obsessed with different diets. Some people are crazy about shopping, others not pull away from the TV. Some have not parted with a cigarette, but there are those who can not imagine my life without all sorts of physical exercises.
It is amazing what a huge part of young people sat for hours at home, staring at a computer screen. This is a kind of pathological attachment by obtaining a false pleasure. She suppresses us emotionally (for example, when we eat a packet of biscuits to calm down, or are drawn for a cigarette, so as not to cry), then it becomes a habitual action against stress. Our society considers it normal for the purchase of goods in which there is no need, or watching television for several hours each day. Many of us do not even think that it does not benefit the health and, moreover, gradually destroying ourselves as a reliable cut us off from our deeper selves.
The first step to overcome his attachment to be an honest conversation with yourself. I must confess myself that you have a problem. At the early stage of development of addiction to something we still do not understand this. We all seem right, and we can easily find a justification. "I love my job," I like to be very thin, "" I enjoy smoking, "I can not sit back, I have to constantly do something", "Head's high expectations for me."
Or will we begin to deceive ourselves by claiming that our behavior is even a positive and consistent with healthy lifestyles (eg, reading, or meditation), and therefore can not constitute any unpleasant issues. However, excessive fondness for anything not found immediately, it develops gradually. Sometimes it takes years, and when the addiction became apparent, and the life of a man is transformed into suffering, only then he begins to realize that he had got a problem. Therefore, I advise to start just honestly look at myself in the mirror.
Then try to understand how you serve your taste. Maybe it's a way to avoid emotion or intimacy? Either way you are trying to cope with the lifestyle that you really want to change? Or are you trying to plug his ears and not listen to higher guidance? Or decided to completely cut itself off from his physical body? Or maybe a way to calm yourself and something to reward? Or to praise himself, deliberately exaggerated self-esteem? (Watch for what is happening and how you feel, whenever you rush to the refrigerator or turn on your computer. Maybe there's some sort of pattern?)
Then ask yourself whether you can change your life, cope with their own fear and begin to respect their emotions and aspirations in some other way. Give yourself time, arrange in silence and solitude so that you could connect with their deepest selves.
Addiction to anything is always a sign that your male energy is an imbalance that you have become obsessed with something and that your vision of the ultimate goal is lost. To cope with addiction, it is necessary to follow their dreams and aspirations. It will direct your masculine energy in a healthy direction. The principle of "follow the dream", as is likely, someone seems to imply that happiness can be found outside oneself. But the very meaning of dreams concluded that, it sends us into a kind of journey. And here is important the process itself, rather than the final result. This dream of your heart comes from your Higher Self, and so it is something he knows exactly what we need to learn and grow spiritually. It pushes us to seek God, or integrity is in the direction where it only can be found.
Parting with his passion should not be a long and painful process. Anything can happen quickly and naturally. When we move into a carefree time, the urge to old habits is becoming weaker and weaker, and we soon discover that making new choices, which helps maintain a balance within ourselves and our integrity, delivering at the same joy. That familiar old feeling of perpetual anxiety, haste, bustle vanishes in the past. (Yes, that was something!) We relax in the true bliss of love of life, while moving - gently and without effort, like a summer breeze - to fulfill our dreams.
I relax and connect with your higher self.
/ D. Edwards /
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