Liz Burba
Affection (Affection - affection, love) can be expressed through touch, words of encouragement, gifts, flowers, compliments, minor cases (or larger), voice, or just a warm smile. If your life is lacking in affection, maybe you just forgot to sow it a little?
Often, people easily become attached to their pets than to other human beings. Often seen as one of the couple sitting in front of the TV and caresses your dog or cat, and the other at this time to himself. When you refuse a man in love, you create an obstacle in your relationship.
My friend told me that she and her husband and daughter feel more affection for each other after their dog died. They had never occurred to me that they all love given to the dog, ignoring each other.
Remember that the source of all energy on Earth is. What you put your energy, you get an. The attachment will grow and you will reap even more, but can never get less than invested.
The more you let circulate your energy of love and affection, the greater the reward. Studies have shown that in meeting the basic needs of the child (his feed, diaper, etc.), but without the manifestations of love for him, the baby can die! We need a relationship with each other!
People often say "yes" instead of saying "no", because in need of attention of others in their "love." We have a need to love and be loved. Interaction with each other is vital for all of us. The best way to communicate - to offer help and knowledge, their affection and love, without expecting anything in return. Then the flow is never interrupted.
If you feel you have no influence on the lives of others, but your environment affects you - this situation is a serious effort on the balance in your body. The flow of your energy stops, you find yourself behind, even more isolated. Make contact with your feelings - expressing them - show your love and "defrost"!
Your goals and objectives are critical! In the morning, they pick you out of bed - it's your intention. If I asked you a minute to call my next goal (6 months), aims for a longer time (5 years) and long-term goals (20 years), what would you have me say? You can call three in each category? It can be tough - especially if they do not exist!
If you live, do not aspire to any problems, then the vital energy becomes stagnant - it ceases to flow, because it simply can not run! The presence of target enhances the quality of your existence - it becomes a life! Put it in front of specific goals - including the ambitious. It is better to slightly under-collection from a major purpose than to get full of small.
Do not be afraid to set a goal - you can change them. If you made a decision for six months to learn French, and a month later decided that you prefer Spanish, switch! Just make sure you continue to go forward.
It's important to understand the difference between goals and desires. The objectives of the grow desires, taking action, you become a desire to target. For example, you want to own a home. This home is your goal from the moment you start to do something to acquire it. Put your energy into achieving this goal - begin to cut out ads from newspapers, visit offered for sale at home, learn to "feel" the market, mentally furnish your home and save money.
If I offer you for a major project like buying a home to start saving $ 10 a week, do you think I'm crazy. "It can help in buying a home 10 dollars a week? It will take a whole life! "A sense that this is a step in the right direction - you say your subconscious mind that it has begun to lead you to your dream!
Many people live alone. Most of them want to meet her "mate", but have not taken steps in this direction. Instead, they live life, looking at the TV. So how can they hope to meet your soul mate?Go ahead - start each day to meet and talk with people. Your half of wanders somewhere close by.
The dream becomes reality when you turn it to their goal. You must be full of energy and feel clear goal. Keep an eye so as not to show excessive rigidity - to remain flexible. She needs you, because the road to achieving the goal will not be perfectly straight. Going through it, you can find many favorable options.Keep your eyes and ears open and to maintain open minds.Deciding to give up any venture, do not let others force you to continue.
When you decide to turn the desire to target, do not discuss it with other people (especially those who are easily frightened and will do everything possible to dissuade you.) Talk to your superconscious. It will give you a clear understanding of whether your dream - that's what you need.
If you do not set goals if you do not have goals, you will always feel a lack of energy. You're going to have depression, lethargy and apathy. You may have problems with feet, hands, eyes, ears and nose.
Exercises
1. Vvozmi sheet of paper and write down the needs of your emotional body.
2. Identify which of these needs, you are neglecting. In what emotional nourishment you need?
3. Learning to meet their emotional needs and nurture the emotional body, you gradually mastered their emotions and become a master of his life!
(To be continued)
Saturday, December 17, 2011
Jill Edwards
Do not do anything for the money
The golden rule for creating prosperity is: "Do what you like."
If you agree to do something just for the money, then you do so exclusively on your ego, which believes that the money you have always in short supply, or do you think that in order to survive, you must suffer. Maybe you think you are unworthy of prosperity or naively believe that life - the struggle. So how do you do so out of fear and negative emotions, it attracts the same, and in the future you will become increasingly difficult to earn money by doing your favorite job.
I know it's usually on a subconscious level, many years, and then experience has shown me in practice how it is true. After I left the NHS, and so far published my first book, for almost two years I earned almost nothing. Many times I offered to write articles for women's magazines and lectures on psychology graduate students. But by the time I saw myself already, "a metaphysical teacher and writer," and determined to say "No" to all other proposals to make money. Sometimes I had to give up almost a virtue, especially when offered a choice morsel. But I firmly believe that the universe will support me in carrying out business of my life. Of course, since it always worked.
After three years, half of my income is brought to your private consultation, but I began to understand that this activity does not satisfy me as much as before. After 15 years, a psychotherapist, I felt that I want to write more books and seminars, which have always been my passion. So, with some anxiety, I'm still gradually ceased all personal consultation. In subsequent months, my income from your favorite sources has increased significantly, and I soon began to receive twice as many than before. The universe has to offer unlimited abundance, and if we follow the dictates of his heart, the easily attract money.
On the other hand, some people can harm themselves, making "leaps of faith" that comes from our ego. I remember a wonderful young woman who attended my seminars. She retired from a boring job to become an artist, but now it is seriously concerned about the lack of progress. It turned out that she knew little of the artist's career and did not have any drawing skills. In general, it was a real novice!
"But I followed my dream!" - She said angrily to me when I suggested that she should not have immediately leave work and its action was reckless. Then it turned out that all her life resisting their parents to become the Secretary to "always have a piece of bread." She had to do the job, which she hated. We discussed a plan for how it should be done to keep the dream step by step.After a while she wrote to me that went to work for the Secretary to art school, and she really liked it. In addition, in his spare time, she began to walk a course of drawing.
What would you do to get money, promise yourself that is not going to do anything with a heavy heart. Otherwise, you link money with martyrdom and struggle. Do not look for excuses like, "Somebody should do it!" I personally believe that if enough people refuse to perform routine, monotonous work, leading to stress, especially in environmentally and socially unhealthy conditions, such work will cease to exist at all. Therefore, in this case, you could even do a good deed if you say "No".
Many people, rejecting the martyrdom, engaging in a job can choose when and what to do. Others are reviewing their relationship to existing work, give it a new definition, and thus the work becomes more creative and efficient. You can also get a part-time or agree to work for several hours every day. But preferably, when a person is looking for a place where he can better and more fully express his deep "I" and fulfill its higher purpose.
(To be continued)
Do not do anything for the money
The golden rule for creating prosperity is: "Do what you like."
If you agree to do something just for the money, then you do so exclusively on your ego, which believes that the money you have always in short supply, or do you think that in order to survive, you must suffer. Maybe you think you are unworthy of prosperity or naively believe that life - the struggle. So how do you do so out of fear and negative emotions, it attracts the same, and in the future you will become increasingly difficult to earn money by doing your favorite job.
I know it's usually on a subconscious level, many years, and then experience has shown me in practice how it is true. After I left the NHS, and so far published my first book, for almost two years I earned almost nothing. Many times I offered to write articles for women's magazines and lectures on psychology graduate students. But by the time I saw myself already, "a metaphysical teacher and writer," and determined to say "No" to all other proposals to make money. Sometimes I had to give up almost a virtue, especially when offered a choice morsel. But I firmly believe that the universe will support me in carrying out business of my life. Of course, since it always worked.
After three years, half of my income is brought to your private consultation, but I began to understand that this activity does not satisfy me as much as before. After 15 years, a psychotherapist, I felt that I want to write more books and seminars, which have always been my passion. So, with some anxiety, I'm still gradually ceased all personal consultation. In subsequent months, my income from your favorite sources has increased significantly, and I soon began to receive twice as many than before. The universe has to offer unlimited abundance, and if we follow the dictates of his heart, the easily attract money.
On the other hand, some people can harm themselves, making "leaps of faith" that comes from our ego. I remember a wonderful young woman who attended my seminars. She retired from a boring job to become an artist, but now it is seriously concerned about the lack of progress. It turned out that she knew little of the artist's career and did not have any drawing skills. In general, it was a real novice!
"But I followed my dream!" - She said angrily to me when I suggested that she should not have immediately leave work and its action was reckless. Then it turned out that all her life resisting their parents to become the Secretary to "always have a piece of bread." She had to do the job, which she hated. We discussed a plan for how it should be done to keep the dream step by step.After a while she wrote to me that went to work for the Secretary to art school, and she really liked it. In addition, in his spare time, she began to walk a course of drawing.
What would you do to get money, promise yourself that is not going to do anything with a heavy heart. Otherwise, you link money with martyrdom and struggle. Do not look for excuses like, "Somebody should do it!" I personally believe that if enough people refuse to perform routine, monotonous work, leading to stress, especially in environmentally and socially unhealthy conditions, such work will cease to exist at all. Therefore, in this case, you could even do a good deed if you say "No".
Many people, rejecting the martyrdom, engaging in a job can choose when and what to do. Others are reviewing their relationship to existing work, give it a new definition, and thus the work becomes more creative and efficient. You can also get a part-time or agree to work for several hours every day. But preferably, when a person is looking for a place where he can better and more fully express his deep "I" and fulfill its higher purpose.
(To be continued)
The choice of values. El Tat.
El Tat. Overcoming Karma.
The choice of values
There is no bad choice. Every choice is good at a certain stage of development of our soul. Here, as in the selection rules of life, it is important that the chosen suit your deep, true needs. It is important that you take your choice with all his being, and were obedient to its vibration, leading you through life. So, choose!What is most important to you?
A lot of money.
Achieve recognition.
Good sex.
Power.
Peace and quiet.
Spiritual development.
Enjoying life (art, communication, food, music, nature, knowledge, travel, etc.).
A happy family.
Finding your "half".
The creative work.
Serving his country, people, mankind.
To make people happy.
Choose one item or two, maximum three, without which your life is unthinkable. Now determine how much time you devote your life to selected items (ie do immediate and specific activities in this direction, as well as think, speak about it).
Suppose, on the main site for you to provide creative work. You ponder a lot about it, talk a lot but not doing anything. Oh yes, you do not want to do it just because you want to pay for it, and not just pay, and accordingly ... Since then, put in first place money, and everything will fall into place in your head, which means that in real life. But do not be fooled!
Failure to understand what their true desires creates profound internal contradictions, negative, destructive emotions.
For example, a person believes that he is a valuable specialist.He thinks: "I want to work, my skills are needed for people I can bring many benefits to responsible positions." The person calling, knocked at doors and finally achieves what he wanted. Here he learns that while salary is very low. Quite "coincidentally" is that he can not go to work right now, but only after a month. Place leaves.
"I go to work in a private firm - think people - there and pay more."This again fails because: "There's a" blockage "that need to work day and night ..." So what does he want? And to sit in a warm chair and money "trickling".
The desire is destructive to the soul, to carry it out, you need to look for contacts with the devil ... Man is free to choose its own path.
For another person, the job-seeker, is the most important communication and learning. So he settles by agreeing to an awkward schedule and low pay, where the full he can get what he is now most important. It's safe to say that a man has a great future. He tries to go through life, it is reasonable sacrificing less important for achieving the main present-day values. He will come to the light, based on divine principles.
If you are quite aware of what your values, then assemble the forces and do in this direction at least small steps. Try to give this full attention, and most importantly - creative vitality. Read professional literature (it gives energy), show any activity available to you, and the result is sure to be!
And more. Decide that you will see the ultimate goal of their activity. Close your eyes and imagine yourself completely happy.What a picture appear before you?
If this is noticeable how light it is visible to you, it warms you, you feel like bottled goodness in his heart every time you think about it, it means that you are on the right track. But if you include restlessness, a vague anxiety, dissatisfaction, hence, the light has not yet entered into your soul or you want to achieve things that do not really bring happiness to your soul. You should seriously reconsider their value system.
The choice of values
There is no bad choice. Every choice is good at a certain stage of development of our soul. Here, as in the selection rules of life, it is important that the chosen suit your deep, true needs. It is important that you take your choice with all his being, and were obedient to its vibration, leading you through life. So, choose!What is most important to you?
A lot of money.
Achieve recognition.
Good sex.
Power.
Peace and quiet.
Spiritual development.
Enjoying life (art, communication, food, music, nature, knowledge, travel, etc.).
A happy family.
Finding your "half".
The creative work.
Serving his country, people, mankind.
To make people happy.
Choose one item or two, maximum three, without which your life is unthinkable. Now determine how much time you devote your life to selected items (ie do immediate and specific activities in this direction, as well as think, speak about it).
Suppose, on the main site for you to provide creative work. You ponder a lot about it, talk a lot but not doing anything. Oh yes, you do not want to do it just because you want to pay for it, and not just pay, and accordingly ... Since then, put in first place money, and everything will fall into place in your head, which means that in real life. But do not be fooled!
Failure to understand what their true desires creates profound internal contradictions, negative, destructive emotions.
For example, a person believes that he is a valuable specialist.He thinks: "I want to work, my skills are needed for people I can bring many benefits to responsible positions." The person calling, knocked at doors and finally achieves what he wanted. Here he learns that while salary is very low. Quite "coincidentally" is that he can not go to work right now, but only after a month. Place leaves.
"I go to work in a private firm - think people - there and pay more."This again fails because: "There's a" blockage "that need to work day and night ..." So what does he want? And to sit in a warm chair and money "trickling".
The desire is destructive to the soul, to carry it out, you need to look for contacts with the devil ... Man is free to choose its own path.
For another person, the job-seeker, is the most important communication and learning. So he settles by agreeing to an awkward schedule and low pay, where the full he can get what he is now most important. It's safe to say that a man has a great future. He tries to go through life, it is reasonable sacrificing less important for achieving the main present-day values. He will come to the light, based on divine principles.
If you are quite aware of what your values, then assemble the forces and do in this direction at least small steps. Try to give this full attention, and most importantly - creative vitality. Read professional literature (it gives energy), show any activity available to you, and the result is sure to be!
And more. Decide that you will see the ultimate goal of their activity. Close your eyes and imagine yourself completely happy.What a picture appear before you?
If this is noticeable how light it is visible to you, it warms you, you feel like bottled goodness in his heart every time you think about it, it means that you are on the right track. But if you include restlessness, a vague anxiety, dissatisfaction, hence, the light has not yet entered into your soul or you want to achieve things that do not really bring happiness to your soul. You should seriously reconsider their value system.
Liz Burba
An important emotional need is belonging - a feeling that you are a "part of something": groups, communities and families. The consciousness of belonging gives us strength and causes a feeling that everything is in order. Some people are so attuned to the universe that they understand and recognize their place in it.Most of us just want to "find their place in this world." So why are we "belong"?
People deprived of their sense of belonging, feeling "lost" and begin more close, further isolating itself. It should be understood that a sense of belonging comes from within. Only depends on you, you shall be an active participant in life or not. Only you choose the time and place of its origin.
If you habitually walk at the same restaurant, ride relax at the same resort or spend time with the same group of friends, it shows that your sense of belonging is underdeveloped. You're tied to the fact that you are familiar and feel comfortable in new surroundings.
You still need to understand that the world belongs to all of us and that your place is where you want to be. You can not drive anywhere. It all depends on you. "Belonging" to some place does not necessarily mean that you want to live there. But wherever you are located at any given moment (in poverty or wealth), you have the right at this point to be where you are. Realizing and accepting this view, you will learn to feel comfortable in all conditions.
People who have poorly developed sense of belonging, often trying to fill that void with alcohol or excess in eating. They usually suffer from obesity or digestive problems. They could allow other people to manage themselves, to compensate for his lack of a sense of belonging.
Hope, "the light at the end of the tunnel" - you probably do not often heard this phrase. If you are indeed in an underground tunnel from which there is no way out, and I am sure that you have no chance to ever get out of this tunnel, you can seem that life no longer worth it. Why? After all, you're still going to die, right?
We imagine as clearly as possible a similar situation, as long as you do not embrace a sense of hopelessness and the feeling that your "fire burns". And suddenly you realize that somewhere in the depths of the tunnel breaks weak light. You immediately feel like you back to the energy and life. This is the hope. No matter what obstacles come across in your way, blocking the exit of the tunnel, you know: out there! You're going to go to the world - for freedom!
Try to understand that everything in your daily life is always for the better. Even if you do not see or do not understand this, there is a Divine Plan, the whole picture. Whatever you felt at the moment, it is part of your development - a learning experience.
If you go ahead and grow up, the inside of you and in your life in general will be more light, more heat, more love. Never lose hope! A person who has lost hope, is going through depression, his blood pressure drops, as the flame it begins to fade.
(To be continued)
An important emotional need is belonging - a feeling that you are a "part of something": groups, communities and families. The consciousness of belonging gives us strength and causes a feeling that everything is in order. Some people are so attuned to the universe that they understand and recognize their place in it.Most of us just want to "find their place in this world." So why are we "belong"?
People deprived of their sense of belonging, feeling "lost" and begin more close, further isolating itself. It should be understood that a sense of belonging comes from within. Only depends on you, you shall be an active participant in life or not. Only you choose the time and place of its origin.
If you habitually walk at the same restaurant, ride relax at the same resort or spend time with the same group of friends, it shows that your sense of belonging is underdeveloped. You're tied to the fact that you are familiar and feel comfortable in new surroundings.
You still need to understand that the world belongs to all of us and that your place is where you want to be. You can not drive anywhere. It all depends on you. "Belonging" to some place does not necessarily mean that you want to live there. But wherever you are located at any given moment (in poverty or wealth), you have the right at this point to be where you are. Realizing and accepting this view, you will learn to feel comfortable in all conditions.
People who have poorly developed sense of belonging, often trying to fill that void with alcohol or excess in eating. They usually suffer from obesity or digestive problems. They could allow other people to manage themselves, to compensate for his lack of a sense of belonging.
Hope, "the light at the end of the tunnel" - you probably do not often heard this phrase. If you are indeed in an underground tunnel from which there is no way out, and I am sure that you have no chance to ever get out of this tunnel, you can seem that life no longer worth it. Why? After all, you're still going to die, right?
We imagine as clearly as possible a similar situation, as long as you do not embrace a sense of hopelessness and the feeling that your "fire burns". And suddenly you realize that somewhere in the depths of the tunnel breaks weak light. You immediately feel like you back to the energy and life. This is the hope. No matter what obstacles come across in your way, blocking the exit of the tunnel, you know: out there! You're going to go to the world - for freedom!
Try to understand that everything in your daily life is always for the better. Even if you do not see or do not understand this, there is a Divine Plan, the whole picture. Whatever you felt at the moment, it is part of your development - a learning experience.
If you go ahead and grow up, the inside of you and in your life in general will be more light, more heat, more love. Never lose hope! A person who has lost hope, is going through depression, his blood pressure drops, as the flame it begins to fade.
(To be continued)
Heal your relationship with money
Jill Edwards
Heal your relationship with money
If you want to succeed, it is important to have a positive attitude toward money. Maybe you're feeling shy of what you want to have more money? Perhaps you associate wealth with greed, selfishness and materialism? Or believe that being poor is more spiritual? Perhaps you underestimate your abilities and do not need them for decent pay? Or do you think that you should not pay for work that well and you enjoy? You do not limit yourself to only low-paid work? Maybe you can give money to charity just because of feelings of guilt? Do you believe that if you have more money then others will become less of? If so, then you need to reconsider their attitude to money!
Yes, of course, money can be used to make bombs, prison bars, or deadly chemicals, but there is no fault of money itself. They can ensure the production of clean drinking water, construction of homes and preservation of forests. With the money, finally, we can just have fun and enjoy life. Money - only form of energy, it is neutral on its merits.
If you are a puritan or have mixed feelings about money, some parts of yourself will attract money, and others - should be repelled. You can attract sudden good fortune, then you find that you need to repair the car and check to pay for the repair of your car just would amount to so suddenly slumped to you. You'll find a job with a salary that barely fit in your "comfort zone", or money will ever end, no sooner do you. Thus, you can never make sense of abundance in your home.
If you think that money and spirituality are incompatible (as most people think), you can come to the conclusion that healing and spiritual work of people do not have to be paid as a "gift from God." This will lead you to believe that in this case another job, for example, a salesperson, carpenter or a dentist - not a gift of God!(Only our ego can come to this conclusion.) Similarly, if we consider the job as service to others, we can go to martyrs or workaholism as "service" can mean self-sacrifice and self-denial.
Or we can prove our dignity that we give our strength and ability to serve others. Then we get up in front of the wrong choice: whether to find a decent job or another high-paying, but then we begin to develop feelings of guilt, because we will get a lot of money. As I see it, no job is not special. Every job is a gift of God, and the money - it's a way to maintain balance in life by giving them in exchange for someone's ability, experience and time. It's like a dialogue, where there is mutual consent, "Thank you" - "I am grateful to you for the offer."
But the money is nothing spiritless, and in poverty - nothing spiritual. When we are poor, we need to focus on survival, so do not have the time and energy to spiritual growth. Lack of money limits our lives, putting pressure on family and friends. It also means that many doors are a variety of opportunities for us to shut down. If you are a monk (or nun), you can prosper without money, because meeting your needs will still be satisfied. But for most people money is an important tool in order to lead happy and fulfilling life. (Of course, a life whose goal is production of money is not included here!) Money - the source, not the goal of life.
Prosperity - our natural birthright, and I believe in what we do not finish their mission on earth, if we learn to live a flourishing and do not create wealth in your home. Of course, this does not mean that we necessarily have to be rich! But we should have enough money so that we can follow his dream, no matter what we mean: the purchase of books, travel to China, re-planning of the garden, or hang-gliding lesson in life is his own cottage. We must have a sense of boundless freedom and access to any sources necessary to meet our soul's purpose and create their own paradise on earth.
(To be continued)
Heal your relationship with money
If you want to succeed, it is important to have a positive attitude toward money. Maybe you're feeling shy of what you want to have more money? Perhaps you associate wealth with greed, selfishness and materialism? Or believe that being poor is more spiritual? Perhaps you underestimate your abilities and do not need them for decent pay? Or do you think that you should not pay for work that well and you enjoy? You do not limit yourself to only low-paid work? Maybe you can give money to charity just because of feelings of guilt? Do you believe that if you have more money then others will become less of? If so, then you need to reconsider their attitude to money!
Yes, of course, money can be used to make bombs, prison bars, or deadly chemicals, but there is no fault of money itself. They can ensure the production of clean drinking water, construction of homes and preservation of forests. With the money, finally, we can just have fun and enjoy life. Money - only form of energy, it is neutral on its merits.
If you are a puritan or have mixed feelings about money, some parts of yourself will attract money, and others - should be repelled. You can attract sudden good fortune, then you find that you need to repair the car and check to pay for the repair of your car just would amount to so suddenly slumped to you. You'll find a job with a salary that barely fit in your "comfort zone", or money will ever end, no sooner do you. Thus, you can never make sense of abundance in your home.
If you think that money and spirituality are incompatible (as most people think), you can come to the conclusion that healing and spiritual work of people do not have to be paid as a "gift from God." This will lead you to believe that in this case another job, for example, a salesperson, carpenter or a dentist - not a gift of God!(Only our ego can come to this conclusion.) Similarly, if we consider the job as service to others, we can go to martyrs or workaholism as "service" can mean self-sacrifice and self-denial.
Or we can prove our dignity that we give our strength and ability to serve others. Then we get up in front of the wrong choice: whether to find a decent job or another high-paying, but then we begin to develop feelings of guilt, because we will get a lot of money. As I see it, no job is not special. Every job is a gift of God, and the money - it's a way to maintain balance in life by giving them in exchange for someone's ability, experience and time. It's like a dialogue, where there is mutual consent, "Thank you" - "I am grateful to you for the offer."
But the money is nothing spiritless, and in poverty - nothing spiritual. When we are poor, we need to focus on survival, so do not have the time and energy to spiritual growth. Lack of money limits our lives, putting pressure on family and friends. It also means that many doors are a variety of opportunities for us to shut down. If you are a monk (or nun), you can prosper without money, because meeting your needs will still be satisfied. But for most people money is an important tool in order to lead happy and fulfilling life. (Of course, a life whose goal is production of money is not included here!) Money - the source, not the goal of life.
Prosperity - our natural birthright, and I believe in what we do not finish their mission on earth, if we learn to live a flourishing and do not create wealth in your home. Of course, this does not mean that we necessarily have to be rich! But we should have enough money so that we can follow his dream, no matter what we mean: the purchase of books, travel to China, re-planning of the garden, or hang-gliding lesson in life is his own cottage. We must have a sense of boundless freedom and access to any sources necessary to meet our soul's purpose and create their own paradise on earth.
(To be continued)
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