Eliminate negative beliefs about work. Jill Edwards

Jill Edwards

Eliminate negative beliefs about work

Marianne in a short time to change jobs three times, each time explaining that she came across a very critical minded and Huh head. "I tried hard, and I wanted it to appreciate," - she said.When a woman a year and half took a fourth place, at first she felt confident, because her friend was working in the same department, and felt that their chief, as she put it, "a very good man who always cheer and support."

To the dismay of Marianne, a month later the boss called her into his office and said that in some areas it should work better! At first, Marianne felt depressed, but then figured out what was wrong. Working just like a mirror, reflecting her own beliefs and expectations, and while she herself has not changed, every chief had behaved toward her the same way.

Many of us naively believe that if we can find suitable jobs, ideal job, wonderful colleagues, and prospects for growth, we will be happy. In fact, to change jobs is not so important as to make changes in his attitude to it and convictions. The outside world is a mirror, so we can not go to work for the hated favorite, if not start with the fact that in transforming yourself.

If your job you are not interested and does not satisfy us, here are some questions to consider.

What is the purpose of your work? (For example: to earn money, to feel in his place, to contribute to society, to express themselves.)

What are the attitudes and beliefs about the work you have absorbed as a child? (For example: Thank God already Friday! Job for so-so, but it will always be a piece of bread. We do not know who needs what I do at work. Work hard, but someone still has to fulfill it. We have to sacrifice for the sake of personal life). Maybe you surrounded adults worked up a sweat for pennies?The work of pleasing, or they have suffered in silence her?

How are your friends and work colleagues? Do not surround yourself with people you who hate the work, or treat it with indifference? Or will they, on the contrary, just love it?

How did you choose your job and profession? (Maybe you advise parents or teachers, or who has offered to do something to this place? Or maybe it was the dream of your life?) What is your opinion about this particular job? What evidence can you give in favor of their beliefs?

Imagine the job of your dreams. Imagine that you have received it.You can expect admiration beginning of the day, feel the warmth and satisfaction, when you are finished working in the evenings.What and how this work differs from what you do now? What you need to change their beliefs or to himself, to draw to itself the job of your dreams?

Your beliefs are not set in stone. You can change them, and easier and faster than you can imagine that! First, be aware of all their beliefs, but do not identify yourself with them ("That's how the world"), but simply become their witness ("That's considered a part of myself.") Second, understand that you have to pay for these old beliefs. This may result in self-pity, martyrdom and the search for approval from the sidelines.

You're trying to prove that your parents are right (or wrong), to avoid risk of failure (or success). In addition, you have to change their old beliefs and to reject all the consequences of those beliefs. Then - the need to replace them with new positive beliefs and constantly remind yourself of them as long as they do not become apparent. Then the outer world will reflect them, as in a mirror.

Here are a few positive opinion of the

I deserve to be happy at work and - satisfied.

My uniqueness - this gift to the world.

Universe fully supports me to do what I love.

Success comes to me easily and effortlessly.

My work - The case of my life.