Tuesday, December 6, 2011

El Tat ... Parents, brothers and sisters

El Tat
Parents, brothers and sisters

Relationships that develop with your immediate family - the most vivid indicator of your attitude to family karma. If the family several children, each of which may be his relationship with his family, and hence its rate due to family karma.

This is due our world, that one of the children can be full support of Karma's father, the other - the mother of karma, and the third is free from these debts.

The girl was given in marriage at age 15. My husband often went home, he loved the noisy company, and died at an early age from diseases of the digestive system. The woman, as was the fate of a lonely and closed lived a life, grow three children. One of them liked to drink and died in alcohol drinking bout, having inherited his father's karma. Another child had lived an active life, was a director of a large plant, achieved much in life, but having inherited karma mother felt the constant loneliness, lack of understanding within the family and among the staff, this bear a severe injury to his heart. The only joy in life was meeting with his mother, which maintained close spiritual connection.

The third child, withdrawing from family, standing in an independent way, was totally alien. When the children gathered at the mother, it seemed that it did not hurt any family conversations, no family photos and keepsakes. He had no relationship to the kind of karma, although it maintained good relations with his family.

There are much more complex weave of karmic lines between family and siblings. Two daughters, the mother may carry the karma, and his father sends pure genetic line of his grandson. Brother and sister inherit his father's problems, and his mother sends her grandson his creative talents. Options are as many families in this world.

Good relations between brothers and sisters, selfless and kind - a great gift of fate and priceless support granted to the sky. But if relations are developing poorly, or even very bad, and then let us not forget that these are our brothers and sisters, has given us over. And whatever happens, we must humbly accept that we are given. We will reasonably support our families - it is our karma that we owe them somewhere, and now we give.

If an alcoholic brother, asking for money to drink it, it is our duty not to give him everything that we have, but do everything to save him. However, not against his will. Everything that is done against the will of man is evil.

If there was a rift between the brothers and sisters, forgive the offenders, we deserve these insults, maybe we blame more in our mutual misunderstanding of each other. Succumb and go to reconciliation - is working off karma kind. Practicing karma, clearing the way for our children and grandchildren.

No matter how evolved our relationship with parents - forgive them and ask forgiveness for something that does not understand them. Whatever happens, these people are given to us by God - therefore, we deserved it and should humbly accept what is given.

The boy was a child beaten and abused, his sister and took care of holili. The children grew up. The girl, an adult sat dependents of their parents and continued to be a favorite daughter. The boy, becoming independent and providing a good man, remained "poor" and "ungrateful." At the urging of relatives he bought them an apartment, villa and home furnishings. Once, when he was required regular amount of money, he suddenly said: "All, I am nothing more you should not!" Since then they have never met and did not even called each other.

It does not matter, as explained by himself young man, why he meekly yesterday doing the slightest whim, and today "do not have to." It is important that his insight and understanding heart suggested that there is a duty and it is necessary to give, but here it is given and karma worked out, it no longer exists either for him or for his growing children. May God bless all of us to have a sensitivity and a will.

Every man is free. If you look at these individuals as "your parents" and everything inside of you resists and does not accept them, then it may be wise to turn around and walk away, walk away from their parents, which you do not like even to see. Perhaps it is their karma - be detached own child.

This is a very serious decision and can only take it when you are sure you fully understand the karmic circumstances of his life. But be that as it may, without leave of evil in the soul, do not leave hard feelings, because you deserve it all at one time. Wish good-bye from the heart to the LORD gave them health and happiness.