Complete any unfinished business

Complete any unfinished business

Does your life a man whom you need to forgive, or, conversely, you do feel guilty, thinking it? Maybe you're with someone does not have time to say goodbye to long, or want to ask some serious questions to whom? (Set aside for a while a book, see what names come to your memory ...) Your emotional body, a portion of your energy system is still "holds" these unresolved emotional issues. Therefore, you always come out a trickle of energy towards that person. You become associated with it and constantly lose energy.

Moreover, as we always strive to finish in a natural way any unfinished business, we will repeat the same mistake in other ways, in an attempt at this time "all complete successfully." Unfinished business and unresolved issue may put us into a dead end and hinder the development over the years. As a result, our relationships with others are formed to fail, we will alienate the friends, and sometimes do not behave better.

Josephine's mother died when she was three years old, and when she grew up, her relationships with both men and women did not last more than three years. Her body bore the emotional belief, "Everyone I love, throwing me over three years." As a result, this statement was a self-fulfilling prediction. Only at the age of 36 years Josephine noticed this pattern and start to correct the situation.

Charlie at age seven was sent to boarding school, where he experienced a deep sense of hurt and abandonment. As a child, he believed in what he was transferred to a boarding school because he was badly behaved. Later, this was reflected in his love relationships. At first, Charles was attentive to his girlfriend, then began to insult her and became unbearable. When he was rejected (and sometimes its relationship lasted no more than one day), he triumphantly exclaimed, "Ah! I told you, that really no one likes me! "

One way to resolve unfinished business can be an internal conversation with another person. (Alive or not, it does not matter, because the conversation is on a soul level, and you still hear it.)

Completely relax and imagine you are breathing in love and light, becoming a wise her, loving the "I". Then imagine that this man stands before you, but not in its usual form, as well as his wise and loving 'I'. Tell him what you think is necessary. Speak from the heart, be totally open and honest, give free vent to his emotions. Listen carefully to everything that he tells you the answer. Then, look at the dark cord that connects you and this person. Very often, this cord comes from the solar plexus. When ready, cut the cord with scissors, a sword or a laser beam. Feel the energy output. Then imagine how you rub healing ointment to place your "wounds", say goodbye to his companion as you think is necessary and acceptable.

Forgiveness is a very important step in addressing the unfinished business. However, we can not forgive another person as long as we learn to respect these feelings of our internal Chad, pain, hurt, anger, sadness and a sense of betrayal and not yet aware of their own role in creating the situation and what it should was to teach us. If you forgive someone, it does not mean that you let him "off the hook." On the contrary, so you free yourself! This is a gift that you present yourself, letting go of the past and continuing to give energy stranger.

We are not victims of the past. The past can not make us suffer and to feel depressed at this time. Now it is our thoughts that are still considered past events alive. We continue to think about them, analyze, and cling to the old. Thus, we project back on their new relationship and lock themselves from achieving their dreams. So we can permanently stuck in a difficult time.