El Tat: Overcoming Karma. Spouses

El Tat: Overcoming Karma.
Spouses

Marriages are made in heaven. The couple - they are people who will build their destiny together. Karmic dependence on a spouse more than the dependence on their parents. Complexes, fears, and adverse childhood family circumstances impose a lasting impression on the little man. However, they often turn even a good thing.

Wanting to overcome the fact that he is not satisfied, the person giving the karmic debts that will power makes itself the way wants to be, builds his life on his own discretion. All possible, because in my youth we have a lot of energy to implement the plans. Overcome a "negative" type are always difficult. This is serious work.

Failure in marriage is often experienced much heavier than "difficult" childhood. It is perceived as a frustration of youth. Not everyone can find the strength to start all over again, sometimes not even in young age. Joint children continue to bind the spouses and divorced.

Able or not able to do all we meant to us in life, able to construct their own destiny and achieve all desired - as it often depends entirely on our "second half"! And this, again, our karma!

You elected a man his wife, and now he (or she) you absolutely do not like. But you chose - then this man something to match? It appears that you have chosen something that corresponded to their own at the moment! Now we need to figure out what you fate brought. What you need to give each other, to teach and learn through your appointment.

Energy relations between the spouses do not respect borders. From a spouse is almost impossible to "close". Karma double knits and becomes common. In moments of intimacy grow your energies into each other, you feed partner, and therefore a ... You feel each other at a distance, you guess your desire to "half", because your energy is now united. You do not like it? But for some reason you need it. We have only one strong right - to help the weak. In the weak there is only one right - to help the strong.

Love - the most sublime feeling arises among people who were to meet each other quite strange. Love itself is a spiritual state, expanding and elevating the soul, bring it closer to God. The couple are joined together so that, multiplying their power to make a new step in the development of his mind to, supporting and nurturing each other, step forward and upward. Love is energy that can create any miracle.

The energy of a harmonious couple is so great that they are practically invulnerable. Alien, disharmonic influences can interfere only in time, the energy of two displace all the disturbing, destroying all the negatives. Why so many stories similar to "Ruslan and Ludmilla" AS Pushkin, when loved ones become separated, but the strength of their love overcomes all obstacles.

But if you are on the second day or the second year after the wedding, found a serious disharmony in the relationship with your spouse, then your problem - do everything to make them more harmonious as possible.

You do everything possible and impossible compromises, find ways to understand and adapt to the partner's circumstances. You try to understand that you have to change about yourself, what was your fault, why you are unhappy in marriage. You can not just up and leave. Spouse - not a bystander. (Even if you choose a couple of random passers-by.) This is another level of karmic relationships. Fate has provoked you to karmic work.

When you answer all the questions yourself and take all the hard work of soul, you have a sense of emptiness. There will be no irritation, no anger, no resentment, you'll know what to blame themselves. Then you will become free, you will be entitled to make a choice, the right to end the relationship, which brings no joy. But your karmic work must be done "one hundred", not to deceive ourselves. Problem solved, when they leave the emotions, and remains reasonable, bright attitude to everything going on.

Marriage - is the experience of serving another person. This is a test capacity to love and empathy, the ability to take someone else's point of view, listen to her, in spite of any difference of views.

How many takes your soul, if you serve diligently and selflessly, with humility and love for man. How happy are people, when eating a peck of salt together, they finally grow into harmony with each other, taking wife for what it is, the loving hearts of his merits and his shortcomings. Do not think that this simple humility before life or fear of it. When people reach harmony, it is always the result of the enormous internal work of both.