Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Remove "weight" of the concept of "money".

Remove "weight" of the concept of "money".

Money is a very powerful symbol in our society. They provide us with everything necessary: meat, clothing, shelter, and they are also a symbol of security. With the money we have to meet their needs. We pay money for our time, skills or services, so they are a symbol of self-esteem and self-esteem. In them we can buy everything you need to relax, so they symbolize the freedom and choice. They can be exchanged at the "status symbols" and signs of affiliation. Thus, they also symbolize the place of the individual in society and social group. In addition, money is closely linked to our relationship with parents, partners or former partners, that is, they represent a symbol of love, support, according to the needs and forces. It is therefore not surprising that we often nervous because of the money, because they mean so much to us!

Our approach to money is often revealing to what extent we ourselves feel secure in the world, as well as the extent to which we are emotionally dependent. If we are worrying because of the money, or have a strong desire to spend it, or obsessed ensure a secure future, or the dreams that we are rich, or feel guilt about the money, it means that money will symbolize for us the relevant aspects of our life.

Many years ago I worked with a group of women suffering from physical disorders associated with errors in the diet. I was struck by how many similarities between the food and money. As with money, food and body weight also weighed in our society. So when you eat cake with cream, it also could mean that: you have lost control over it, you're a dangerous man, you are nourishing your internal Son, you protect yourself, you have someone punished.

Similarly, you can decrypt and behavior of people who suffer loss of appetite, or, rather, constantly absorbing food: they are chronically deprived himself of something, or have to always go to town. Money and food are often seen as aspects of "negative, but the necessary". Mistake to assume that they can meet their emotional needs. But they can not do as well so you never feel rich enough (or sufficiently thin).

One of the keys to the achievement of prosperity is the jettisoning of the "weights", which you downloaded the notion of "money". Imagine that you have a lot of money, and please note that while you feel. Then ask yourself:

What you represent money? Safety, freedom, independence, power, position in society, self-esteem, happiness or satisfaction of your emotional needs?

Do not fear whether you be rich? If so, maybe you are afraid that other people will expect something from you, as a rich man? What will you do? Currently, you often use lack of money as the excuse? Regarding what you usually say "I have always done this, if the money"? Is that the real reason for the money? Be honest in front of you!

Maybe you assotsiiruete money from their parents or former partner? Imagine that you tell them that became rich. You feel the excitement, anxiety, or Resistance? Do not humiliate Do not you be disappointed them that were rich? Or let them "stripped hook"?

If you have a partner, often whether you argue and quarrel with him / her because of money? If so, that your relations symbolize money? Power? Lack of need? Credibility? Dependence?

Once you realize that money means to you and why you are afraid of wealth, you can begin to drop this "weight". You can easily understand and convince themselves that the safety, freedom or power, you will find within themselves, not expecting that it will make money. If money is a symbol of freedom, what you meant to be free? How would you have begun to liberate themselves? After all, freedom is a gift, which we award ourselves, not something that can offer us money.

Money is not a magic wand. It is simply a form of energy. This paper, coins or electronic set of digits. This is - a very useful source. They can be exchanged for goods or services, but they can never make us happy or to feel secure and satisfied with themselves.

I feel safe (free, powerful ...), regardless of how much money I have.

HYPNOSIS