The main factor that determines the force with which stories or metaphors transforming values and changing the formula is that the story has a structure similar to the structure of our lives and our experiences. This similarity of the structures we call an isomorphism.
David Gordon leads an excellent choice when designing isomorphic relationship metaphor in family therapy. It is not a complete metaphor, but gives us an example of how design metaphors to choose isomorphic characters.
The specific choice of objects, situations and / or characters in the design of metaphors is not particularly important. When you create a metaphor is important as the characters are connected and the customer's needs. In real life, the characters are, of course, real people that are relevant to human life. The design of metaphors, you can use animals, people, situations, or their combination. However, to argue that they should be isomorphic customer needs. Consider the following example.
This similarity of the structures we call an isomorphism. People, events, emotions, drama, etc., described in the stories are consistent with similar formats of our lives. This makes the story important to us.
Isomorphism as the similarity of the structures also explains how and why we are so simple, even unknowingly, may use the story to shift our reference indices. Dilts offered this explanation:
Robert Dilts, Roots of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (Cupertino: Meta Publications), Gordon, Therapeutic Metaphors (Cupertino: Meta Publications, 1978), p. 42.
The reality of the situation
Metaphor
Father
Captain
Mother
Assistant Captain
Son
Young
Family
The crew of the ship
The father is seldom at home
The captain is often locked in a cabin
The reality of the situation
The son had committed misconduct
His mother justifies son
The father discovered the misconduct, he went into a rage and left
No solutions Repetition problem
Metaphor
Young did not raise those sails
First Assistant yungu corrects and tries to raise the sail right before the captain of this notice. Captain discovers this, is furious that he was not reported, and removed to his cabin.
No solutions.
The repetition of the problems have not yet found a solution
Milton Erickson described how he used it with a couple having marital problems caused by sexual behavior. Erickson talked to the husband and wife on their culinary allegiances. He discovered that their culinary preferences are consistent with sexual behavior is a source of problems. My husband chose a simple meal and love immediately proceed to the main dishes, while the wife liked to stay on snacks and delicacies. As a mental health funds Erickson advised them to plan a meal together, so that both husband and wife could enjoy. The couple, of course, had no understanding of the significance of this event, but were pleasantly surprised when it was discovered that their sexual life has greatly improved since then.
Now I ask you: "What do you think, what the medical term describing the primary sexual dysfunction in their sexual life?" Metaphor, which meets the requirements of the similarity of structural components and isomorphism problem situations may be not just efficient, but also lead to a complete cure. In recent years Erickson's work is almost exclusively used the metaphor.
The metaphor, which meets the requirements of the similarity of structural components and isomorphism problem situations may be not just efficient, but also lead to a complete cure.
The transformation of meaning through metaphor
Using the language of metaphors, analogies, stories, etc. allows us to refreyming in the conversation. Consider the following short stories.
1. "The river flows to the ocean as fast as it can".
2. "Water, taken prisoner by the dam, still dreaming of the sea".
3. "My friend is constantly complaining that her husband comes home late. But after he died, she often thought about it and spared no, that he is not too late ".
4. "I once had a friend who constantly complained that the clothes for his daughter, a teenager is very expensive. Then his daughter died in a car. Now he would like to be able to spend money on her clothes ".
5. "If your surgeon is late for dinner because of the fact that saving someone life, does this mean that you do not volnuete?"
6. "This is the same as to spit against the wind".
To describe someone in the story or with the help of a metaphor, think about what you like a specific problem, issue or concern. What it looks like? Often, a comprehensive approach to the issue, we perform best when to stop thinking about the problem and think of something different (especially if we are to relax and enjoy), and then suddenly in the mind arises the idea, which we then associate with the problem.
In the narrative of psychotherapy as the primary method of identifying the problems we externalize the problems, situations, themes, ideas, emotions, etc. Sharing and behavior (as well as all other functions and their products, especially the thoughts and emotions), we emphasize the different central aspect of the story, namely:
Man - this is not a problem, problem - a problem.
Thus, when we eksterializuem problem, we change our thinking and emotions in relation to the events of our lives, thoughts, emotions, etc. This leads to the creation of their preferred stories that we can establish, based on the results of a unique and brilliant moments. As anger prevented you achieve success this week? When Anger forced you to return to the stories? What is your Cowardice tactics used to deceive you and make the surrender? Do you have a resistance of cowardice?
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