I lived once in the light of the Prince, who believed in all but three things that he did not believe. He did not believe in princesses, he did not believe in the island, and he did not believe in God. The father of Prince, the King said to him that such a thing in the world does not exist. Thus, in the possession of his father there were no princesses or islands, and no evidence of God and the prince believed his father.
(John Faulz)
Under the influence of words formed by our understanding of the world, and vice versa, instead viewing the world, we write about it in our "map of the world". If such records do not exist, we would have to assess the world anew each time.
Kodiruya world, people draw up the list, including in the form of words. And every time proiznosya word, the man is a description of the world associated with the word.
In NLP (neurolinguistic programming) to the attention of quite a conversion experience. This can be useful when the person was a negative experience and can not change attitudes.
Perhaps you know of such a thing as refreyming when a person is invited to look at the situation from another point of view, or in a new frame (hence the term "refreyming" - staged in the other frame).
People are optimistic about reaching for life, often refreymingom, not even realizing that their ability to easily perceive the flaws, called such a tricky word.
As a joke, totally bald man, standing in front of the mirror with admiration, said: "So many years, and no gray hair!".
Here is a facetious example samorefreyminga. A general refreming may apply to change the time-frame or, for example, a phrase that changes the meaning of the situation.
To re negative experiences and self-regulation can go the way described in the book "Magic Words". (K.Besser-Sigmund).
"For the body are the words that are subjective matter for each person. Otherwise, as tiny black letters may be forced to drop tears on page novel, or to propel the muscles responsible for the appearance of a smile?
... Words said aloud or to himself, again and again resurrects past experiences with the previous power of emotions and bodily reactions. Thoughts are quite different words portray. A large impact is the significance of a word for humans. Usually, I ask: "When you imagine the word on the sheet of paper - in what form it appears before you? It is printed or written by hand and what size the letters? They color?". The responses are recorded, for the most part, subjective distress caused by the word.
For example, most people, words or names, fearsome, appear to mind the sight of a large dark or black printed letters. Many adult problem emerges word written in the tradition of the primary school: from child care, and now writing from a completely different person. No less revealing, and stories about the sound of certain words that captures our inner ear. Various impact and appearance of the words. Rounded forms are generally more pleasant emotions, rather than angular. Color words were calm and positive reactions.
Stress can call using our five senses to recode according to our personal desires. It is important that when looking for the best image you the words came to mind as much as possible the ideas, let their imagination to consider and work out some hints that in the future will be able to help you. Suppose you have managed to transform the desire to stress the word magic.
Here successive stages of creation of magic words.
Define the problem.
Make a list of words stress related to this issue.
Stay as long as the keyword issue.
How do you see this word?
Create a new word for your emotional experience:
as it should be written word?
how should it sound?
how you should feel it?
what other features are available?
Create a variety of pulses ( "hook", which in the next two weeks will be reminded of your magic words).
These may include:
stickers;
picture on which you draw your magic word;
Other hook, for example: jewelry, ballpoint pen or a favorite perfume.
Very often, unfettering effect is making its presence felt suddenly and directly. But be that as it may, you have to give your brain is two to three weeks time, that he could capture this new impetus to the organic level. "
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