Psychology of Success.
I believe that every person can become stronger and happier person.
Everyone can find and develop their businesses. Moreover, I think that everyone unconsciously, in the depths of the soul to strive for this. The question is only, in what way and how people moved to this?
People can change in a positive way, to improve their lives, their nature.
Who does not want to be a strong man? Someone does not want to earn decent money in its work? Someone does not want to be totally free man? Someone does not want to know about people? Learn how to influence them? Someone does not want to put his desires? Someone does not want to be sure of yourself and happy?
These people do not. Do not want this can not be!
It is obvious that it is impossible not to want this. All the people want it. However, not all are aware of their true desires. Not all people understand how to move in a positive direction, not all see and understand how to achieve success.
Thus, the result follows. Be independent, to love their job, be a strong person just wants to. But, as you may know of his life observing, not just in its becoming.
Analyze and address the reasons why no man becomes a strong personality, was and is our psychological center of "strong personality".
For some people, there is obtained "fear of success". This fear of becoming a successful, famous, rich, what a remarkable man! Realize that fear - would make a huge step forward in their personal development.
The famous psychologist Abraham Maslou called fear of success, which prevents a person to strive for greatness and self "Complex Ions". The complex ions are characterized by fear of their own greatness, evasion of its mission, the flight of their talents!
Maslou found that only 1% of people lacking complex Ions.
What was the cause of the complex of Jonah? The reasons are many. The wrong style of child-rearing. Typically, this is an authoritarian upbringing, based on a cult of something (father, mother, family, genus, etc.) People are generally typical conformism, gregariousness, the instinct of self, etc.
What, then, is to be as strong personality? What does this mean?
Strong personality - this is, first, the man who shaped his life in the case, he will. Moreover, this case should reflect the interests and abilities of the person.
Secondly, be a strong person means to make the case itself, that is to be totally independent economically. And make no paid work and in his business.
The third is a strong independent identity in ideological terms. This is evident from the first two paragraphs. If a person is economically independent, it is obvious that he was too ideologically independent.
You can, of course, add that and culturally strong personality and original manifest identity, not a standard template, as most people.
Alas, but many people do not understand that the "spiritual self" and "Financial Independence" - are two sides of same coin! These things can not be separated. You can not only become stronger spiritually or materially, because the spiritual and material are interrelated!
Why do some people believe that one should contradict another. But the physical and spiritual, and financial improvement does not necessarily contradict one another, but complementary. I submit that one without the other. You can not be economically dependent person and the spiritual wealth. That's impossible. One is a consequence of another.
Should develop harmoniously in all directions, including in financial terms. In general, I want to say one thing - money, too, must be able to earn. And in this shall be a primary concern. Why? Because no money is impossible to live, nor to engage in spiritual and physical self-improvement.
Of course, there is nothing shameful in that you can go to the ragged, darn pants, vodichkoy eat and sleep in the snowdrift. But this means only that you have anything useful and meaningful to other people do not know how. After all, if able to, then you have the money. Right?
So, podvozhu outcome. The existence of a business - it is the best indicator of the individual forces. Note that the personality is expressed only in social activities. And note that this activity must be won!
This - the basis of your mental health and psychological well-being.
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