Louise Hay

 

Love yourself NOW.

 

Do not wait until you all will turn out. Perpetual dissatisfaction with himself - it's just a habit. If you can be happy with him now if you can right now to love and approve of yourself, then you're ready to enjoy those good things that will be part of your life. Learn to love yourself, you can love and accept others.

     We can not change other people, so leave them alone.

     Trying to change someone, we spend a lot of energy. If we spent at least half of it on himself, it would have been an entirely different. And of course, we would have to have a completely different attitude.

     You can not teach someone to live. Everyone should get himself his own path. All that is available to you - is to know himself. A self-love - the first step in this direction. It helps to resist the destructive effects that can have on you some other people. If there is a situation in which you have to deal with a person hostile to any change for the better, just like yourself, love yourself truly and fate will take you to all the trouble.

     One woman in my lecture said that her husband - a very bad man and she does not want to fall under the influence of his two small children. I offered her to do affirmations, namely repeating that the family man - a wonderful man, the breadwinner of the family and worked very hard on themselves. I told her that I need to say that she would like to see in the future. By affirmations should seek every time manifested severe temper husband.

     However, I warned her that the relationship can remain the same as before. Everything ends, the marriage ended in divorce.

     The divorce rate in our country is growing. So I would like to ask one question to women. It is worth asking yourself before to have children. So: "Am I willing to support their children on their own?" It is now the norm to raise children without a father. A single mother holds the additional responsibility for the welfare of the family.

     The time when the marriage lasted throughout their lives. And it needs to be taken into account.

     Too often we try to keep the relationship, full izmyvatelstv and humiliation, allowing himself to fall.

     We are constantly being told, "I'm not worthy of love, so I suffer silently swallow tears. I must have deserved such treatment. Anyway, I do not need anyone else."

     What I am saying is a bit simplistic. However I am willing to repeat again and again that the most effective way to avoid problems is to love ourselves as we are. I truly believe in it. Vibration of love coming from us, to attract people who love us.

     Unconditional love ... I think we came into this world to learn it. It starts with making yourself and love yourself. You are not here to please others or to live on someone else's orders. You can live just the way you are destined, and went their own way. You come back to this world to find himself and to know the love at the deepest level. You are here to grow spiritually, learn to accept the compassion and understanding to demonstrate these qualities to others when you leave the planet, it does not take with the car, bank account, work, friends, etc, etc. The only thing that belongs to you for real, - the ability to love!