Louise Hay

LOVE YOUR TROUBLES AND DISADVANTAGES.

Everything negative in us and in life in general - just part of the grand overall plan. Part of the program of creation. Universal Mind, created mankind, can not hate May for what we make mistakes or get angry at their children. Universal Mind knows that we are doing our best, and supports us with his love. Everyone makes mistakes once in a pass and does not the right choice. However, if we are constantly punishing yourself for your mistakes, such a pattern of behavior gradually becomes a habit of it and it becomes quite difficult to refuse. In this case, it is more difficult to make a positive choice.

     If you do not get tired of repeating: "I hate my job. I hate my house. I hate his illness. I hate their relationship. I hate all this," that could not be counted for a happy life.

     Remember that no difficult or unpleasant situation does not arise by chance. Each of them is worth something. Some very good reason. Dr. John Harrison, author of "Love your disease", says people should not blame themselves for their ailments or transferred their operations. In fact, to congratulate ourselves with the disease, as it is a reliable clue for choosing the life path. It must be understood that every problem has a direct bearing on our view of life: we are contributing to the creation of problems trying to control certain situations. Once realizing this, we can find a way out without damage to health.

     For many people who become ill after cancer or other terminal illnesses, is very characteristic inability to talk to authorities, "no." Saying "no", they experience such pain that on a subconscious level, can be conceived program of destruction that will say "no" to them. I was acquainted with a woman who, realizing the cause of his illness, refused to obey the requirements of the father and first began to live for yourself. At first it was incredibly hard to say "no", but after a while she happily discovered that learned and recovering.

     Whatever we have developed negative patterns of thinking and behavior, we can always learn in time to find a way out. That is why it is important to ask yourself the following question: "What will this situation What I'm from carrying bear? Will my experience be positive?" We do not like to ask yourself these questions. But if we really want to know how to answer them and look inside yourself, you know the truth.

     For example, the answer may be this: "The only way I manage to get the attention of her husband. Realizing this, you can think about how to get the same result with other, less harmful ways.

     Humor - is one of the possible means of recovery. It helps to let go of the pain and stress, and thus easier to survive the stress. We play in Heyrayde special time for jokes. Sometimes we invite to his "lady smeshinku." She has a contagious laugh that no one can be serious in her presence. You can not take everything to heart, and, in addition, laughter has amazing healing powers. I advise you often watch old comedies, when you in a bad mood.

     When I gave private advice, I try to help people see the estimated direction of their problems. If we learn to take life as a soap opera or a comedy, our chances to live it happily grow. We are on the way to recovery.

     Humor allows us to step back from the situation and look at it from the side, and to some extent - from the top down.