Paul Ferrini

Unless one is aware of his own injuries, he is under the yoke of their aggression. Behind bars is not just a criminal. Those who put him there, live in the same chamber.

If you do not pull on the light in the subconscious, it will manifest itself in their own perverted forms. If you do not specifically work with the offender to help him to love and accept yourself, it will return to a society filled with the same anger and revenge.

Construction of new prisons and more police on the streets will not make your neighborhood safer. Such actions only worsen the situation by increasing the level of fear.

If you want to improve things, start with the forgiveness of those who are in prison, and those who live in the neighborhood. Increase the number of teachers, educators and social workers.

Feed the people, point them emotional and spiritual guidance. Let them feel safe emotional connection. Give them hope. Give them recognition. Give them love.

This is the work of a peacemaker. This is the ministry. This means - to take his brother as himself.

And please do not forget that by giving to others, you give yourself. You can not give love, not getting it in return. You can not make a gift that will not immediately come back.

It is time to stop punishing a sinner and offender in the community. Punishment only strengthens rejection. But we need the opposite. The feeling of rejection should soften and soothe. Condemnation and attack must be brought to the light of awareness. In the sense of guilt and fear to see what they really are.

The case re - it is a matter of integration. All the dark shall be made to the light. All you need to do is unacceptable acceptable, so that we can look at it without fear. Seeds are to be found in deeds and thoughts turn to them. You can not change things without changing the thought.

If you are taboo on certain thoughts, you will be afraid of them. This is not constructive. Be prepared to look at the violent thoughts in mind, not to have to bury them in his subconscious.

Help people to take responsibility for what they think, and for the consequences of their thoughts. Personal power and true self-esteem begins with the realization that you are free to choose what to think, what to say and how to act.

Those who attack others, feels that he has no choice. A man who knows that he has a choice, do not attack other people.

This is the key. Show me a man that he has a choice, and he did not commit the crime. Crime - a kind of self-punishment, unconsciously chosen to get rid of subconscious guilt.

(To be continued)