Louise Hay

RELATIONSHIP WORK

     Relationships at work are very similar to our relationship in the family. They may be either equal or health, or be based on mutual dependence.

     One woman told me: "I like a man with many advantages, do not want to deal with the bad guys at work."

     First of all, I thought, "How interesting, she thinks his fellow bad people, but themselves - the focus of virtues." And then inquired why she attracts negative. It is quite possible that all these bad traits were in itself, but she did not realize.

     I offered her to believe that she is always working in a joyful and peaceful atmosphere. People on her work appreciate each other and life in general. Instead of complaining about the conditions in which it has to work, it could be argued that there is always work in an ideal location.

     By adopting a philosophy for himself, it could also help his colleagues to identify the best qualities: they would certainly have responded to the changes occurring in it. Otherwise, she might like to try their hand at a different life path, where it would meet the conditions.

     One man told me that when he started working, he did not leave the amazing intuition: the work was great and everything was wonderful. He was an honest man and satisfied with life. Suddenly, he began to make mistakes every day. I asked him what he was afraid. Maybe resurfaced fears of his childhood? Or maybe he was angry at someone, trying to get even with someone? Does not it remind him that person any of his parents? It was not a matter with him before? I thought that some confusion with his work has been called by some of his former beliefs. He said that his family had made fun of him whenever he made a mistake. I asked him to forgive her family. And, in addition, to tell myself what a wonderful, warm relationship he has with colleagues, as they appreciated his credit.

     Do not think of a co-worker using the formula: "What he / she has lousy character." Each person can find any quality. So pay attention only to the good. Respect people's abilities to live with you in peace. Focus on the good qualities. And then they show up. If colleagues are always talking shit and trying to get you out of yourself, do not bother with it. You want to change your mind. And because their behavior reflects your own negative attitude, then get rid of it, and the relationship will improve dramatically. Even if you are disappointed, repeat affirmations that you would like to see in their work. And then - accept it with joy and gratitude in my heart.