Stand there just as well in our lives and the negative anchors? Yes. Imagine a family receiving friends in the civil requiem. Wife's mother died, and many came to pay tribute to her, is deeply saddened by his wife, friends, one after the other match and embrace it. Women may subconsciously associate the embrace and the feeling of grief.
And after a few days or months when her husband suddenly embraces her, the woman covers the inexplicable attack of sobbing! Her grief overwhelms. She received inadvertent access to the state, and now hold some time in trying to understand the nature of their negative feelings to her husband! In fact, she has developed a negative reaction to a conventional touch her husband. Here, the old psychological schools try to return us to search for injury, the key milestones in the development process and to Greek mythology, to give an explanation neosoznavaemym processes. In fact, we are only example of a random anchor. Therefore, getting rid of the negative anchors, while learning how to set positive anchors, is becoming an important means of maintaining good relations.
Yakorenie as a mechanism for making a conditional response in the hands of a psychiatrist provides a practical tool to change the status of the patient. Bendler and Grinder (Bandler & Grinder, 1979) wrote that about 90% of what we are doing in psychotherapy, including the change "kinesteticheskih reactions occurring in humans in response to visual stimuli and audialnye".
Yakorenie forgiveness
Former parishioner called me (BB), about one of my colleagues (Jim), who is emotionally taken a heavy blow - the care of his wife after fourteen years of life. During the two weeks since her departure, Jim lost the weight about eight kilograms. His badly troubled emotional distress ... I made Jim think of "time" (using some of the processes associated with the "Time Line"), using yakorenie in order to withdraw it from an emotional disorder, that it can be reconciled with reality. Like all of us, Jim in the past made mistakes that caused him feelings of guilt. As a Christian, he believed that Jesus forgave him, but Jim did not forgive himself.
Timeline - a metaphor to express how we store our images, sounds and other sensations in the memory and imagination, a way of coding and processing of the concept of "time".
Jim Rassprashivaya forgiveness of Christ, I zayakoril state of forgiveness, referring to his knees. Then I asked Jim "return to the past" in his time line, to the period prior to the time of the commission of those mistakes. Jim fulfill my request and I have reproduced the anchor so it can survive the feeling of forgiveness for those specific events. Then, holding the anchor associated with his knee, I asked Jim carried forward in time, bringing with it a sense of forgiveness. As a result yakorenie spiritual resource (forgiveness) has allowed Jim to extend forgiveness of Christ to their mistakes.
Intentional yakorenie in psychotherapy
First, I (BB) yakorenie sparingly used in psychotherapy. But now, thanks to practice, accumulated over time, I regularly turn to yakoreniyu (using primarily verbal and Tone Anchor). I underestimated the ability of anchors because of their simplicity. In fact, we are inevitably and continually set and plays an anchor. No one can live without it. GLP only allows us to understand the process. Knowledge of neurolinguistic yakoreniya reception gives an idea of how "first impressions formed long impression". Stability of the first anchors due to the fact that they set the frame. Install anchors for the perceived themselves and others gives us the ability to control the process. We can set an anchor, which served us well, and others, show us all the best and create a context for the adoption of new ideas and learning.
Stability of the first anchors due to the fact that they set the frame.
Properly installed anchor will cause an immediate reaction, which confirms a basic presuppozitsiyu NLP on learning from one attempt.
Though yakorenie and goes back to Pavlov's theory of incentives and the reaction of these two processes differ in some details. The development of conditioned reflex on the principle of "stimulus-response" in most cases requires a certain number of combinations of stimulus and reinforcement. When yakorenii usually able to establish communication with the first attempt. The model "stimulus-response" We establishes the desired behavior through a gradual positive stipulation. Reinforcement may take the form of praise, a smile, pat on the back or any other promotional incentives. The promotion will continue until the desired behavior does not become accustomed to humans. This process takes time. Typically, the external behavior assimilated as an internal state by means of repetitions carried out for twenty or thirty days. Then, the behavior becomes automatic and neosoznavaemym. On the other hand, properly installed anchor nnuyu cause immediate reactions, which confirms a basic presuppozitsiyu NLP on learning from one attempt.
Communicating or sending messages, each time we anchor representation. We use words (audio and / or visual symbols - signs) for the representation of something bigger, but also to awaken the thoughts, representations, ideas, memories, values, etc. The words that describe the sensual feeling instantly activate objects links. "The brown dog weighing about fifteen kilograms, rising about half, dripping wet in the rain, stinks that spent the night in pomoynoy pit, and otryahivalas stood in my living room!"
This is called verbal yakoreniem. Words used to awake, cause in the imagination of another person's various images, sounds, emotions, smells and feelings. All successful professionals in the field of communication used yakorenie, although typically used to it, not knowing exactly how this method operates. A good story-teller, or a combination of certain messages with certain emotions modulations vote more consciously. They are the anchor of the state, experience and representation.
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