The main purpose of metaphor is to adjust to the behavior of the client and run it through stories. Constructing a metaphor, remember the following.
1. Move the reference index from the client to some character stories.
2. Adjust to the client, making sure that the behavior of the characters stories and events happening to them was similar to the situation the client.
3. Use the context of the history to access resources of the client.
4. Finish the story, so that the sequence of events leading personages of history to resolve conflict and achieve the desired result.
Start all NLP
I studied on the model of "The beginning of all NLP" John Overdorfai found it most useful in psychotherapy, and in learning NLP. Analyzing the patterns of NLP, you will find that they spend on customer phase of the model. It also provides a general framework for building your metaphors.
1. Associate a client with a problem.
2. Dissociated from the customer's problem.
3. Detect client resources and associate it with them.
4. Associate resources to the problem.
5. Carry out the adjustment of resources for the future.
The main stages of creating metaphors
1. Determine the sequence of interest to you and / or events. They may vary
from the conflict between the inner parts to the physical illness, problems in the relationship between the client and his parents, boss or wife (spouse).
2. Define the desired results, and new choices. In NLP we establish communication with the imaginary result. Metaphors are a unique way of such communication. Keep in mind the visual design of your result and when you create a metaphor for the client, allow this result to control your subconscious.
3. Replace the reference indices. Display all the nouns (objects and items) to determine the characters of history. Character can be any object, animated or inanimate, from stones to the inhabitants of the forest, cowboys, books, etc. If you keep the relationship between the characters, their choice does not matter. You probably will often use the characters well-known magic of fairy tales and myths.
4. Install the isomorphic relationship between the situation and the behavior of the client and the situation and the behavior of the characters stories - display all the verbs (relationships and interactions). Define the characteristics of behavior, such as strategy and the characteristics of representations that are similar to those of similar traits in the present situation of the client (ie, adjust with the help of history to the situation of the client).
5. Identify new resources and gain access to them in terms of characters and events of history. You can do this by conducting refreyming repeated access to the neglected resources. You can not specify a resource, allowing the customer to choose his unconscious contents.
6. If you notice a resistance to the history, use of uncertainty and direct quotes to interrupt the sequence of events in it. Informed understanding, of course, does not always preclude the metaphorical process.
7. Make a decision is ambiguous, to the extent necessary to enable
Instinctive client to make appropriate changes.
8. If possible, make adjustment to the future.
Questions for Thought
1. How does the "history", or act as a metaphor "mesmeric" language pattern?
2. Give the definition of metaphor.
3. Name the three main components of a metaphor.
4. Explain why we say that the whole metaphor of language functions.
5. Why in the development and use of such metaphors plays an important role isomorphism?
6. What is meant by tuning and maintenance in the context of the use of metaphor?
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