As far as frames, put us in childhood affect our adult life?
I (BB) is convinced that many abstract filters that we use, having grown up, originate in the early stages of our lives. Problems arise when old patterns of thinking will no longer satisfy us. The strength of the line time is in its ability to send people to refreyming old, became useless patterns of thinking.
Work on the line time and NLP therapist help the client to allow cure of painful memories by using its own resources. When these painful memories are subjected to treatment, the client can forgive his mother, father or someone else, causing him harm. We believe that full recovery occurs only after forgiveness. Remember that in the NLP, we are dealing primarily with the process, not the content. When working on the line, we ask: "How our brain encodes time?" What is happening inside the head, allows us to recognize the distinction between past, present and future? How do we know about the order in which the events of the past? The brain must have some method of coding time, otherwise we would be unable to discern in our lives separate events. Signs of the coding contained in the metaphor of time and how we talk about it: "I see a bright future ahead of himself", "I left behind in the past and can not see and put forward". Such statements suggest that we view the past, present and future developments in spatial terms, in terms of directions.
The section on submodalnostyam, we have described in detail the temporal coding. Here we only briefly repeat this story. Try to conduct such an experiment. Think of something that you regularly do. You can think about going to work or cleaning the teeth. Remember how you did it about five years ago. Of course, you are unlikely to be able to remember a specific time. But imagine being about five years ago, when you are likely to implement the activity. Now remember how you did it two years ago. Then remember how you did it last week. Ok. Imagine how you do the same here. Now imagine how you do it next week, two years and five years later.
When you are remembered and represented the activity, you probably received a number of mental pictures. Look at these pictures again and tell me what the differences submodalnostey you notice? Compare and match these few pictures, ask yourself the following questions:
Black and white or color is each picture?
Does each moving picture elements?
three-dimensional or flat, each picture will look like?
Do you see yourself in each picture, or you see a picture with my own eyes?
Each picture is placed whether within or looks like a panorama?
How bright are the picture? Increases or decreases the brightness when you go farther into the past?
How far do you see each picture?
When you look at each picture, they are in focus or out of focus? Are on the grounds of "older" and "newer" pictures?
Where in my view you can see every picture? Pay attention to how "older" paintings differ from the "newer".
This coding submodalnostey allows the brain to distinguish between past, present and future. This cord allows you to know that you consider the memories of the past, and then, to what extent the long-standing history as it relates. This also allows you to distinguish past from present and future. This ability - neosoznavaemy process. Your subconscious encode memories in a way that they occupy a certain place in time. In NLP, this set of memories, we call the time line. You may find it useful that all your memories are linear.
This coding submodalnostey allows the brain to distinguish between past, present and future. The strength of the line time is in its ability to send people to refreyming old, became useless patterns of thinking.
Ted James, in their training sessions on "psychotherapy on the time", asks the question: "When you woke up this morning, as you know that it was you?" We know this because it has a set of memories of how we look like, sound, feel, etc.
Work on the time line assumes that the pictures of our memories in order linear manner. We usually represent a period of time or motion, so we need to encode it using the metaphor, which also has this feature / quality. Most people keep time as a line: straight, curve, curved or broken. Once you've made up a list of submodalnostey its time line, if you drew attention to their spatial location? Can you combine separate memories so that they formed a continuous line? We call this line "Time Line".
We usually represent a period of time or motion, so we need to encode it using the metaphor, which also has this feature / quality.
Using the metaphor of "time - this line" means that we pay attention mainly on the visual submodalnosti, such as color, brightness, size, distance or position. A critical factor (critical submodalnostyu) is usually the distance. Distant memories symbolizes an event that happened long ago. The greater the perceived distance, so as to more distant time refers memory. Other visual quality also indicate the age and if something belongs to the past or the future. Some people find that the brightness and focus are also important to determine how "far" in time is a memory. Some people have a dark or "dark" Past and future are often seen as a "bright" and may appear defocused or very small, located on the horizon. Also pay attention to it, whether you have the time as a movement ( "time - constantly ongoing river"), or you are moving over time, making "the journey of life".
* Book of proverbs of Solomon 29: 18. In the English translation of: "Where there is no vision, people perish").
Using the metaphor of "time - this line" means that we pay attention mainly on the visual submodalnosti, such as color, brightness, size, distance or position. A critical factor (critical submodalnostyu) is usually the distance.
Audialnye submodalnosti not allow us to carry out simultaneous access to memory. Kinesteticheskie submodalnosti usually too inaccurate. However, some people are trying to encode time, this way, and usually find that it does not work very well! In such cases, ask them to use more visual coding, for example, a visual metaphor of time, then they will be able to see the time and find it much more useful when it comes to search, review and "change" of memories.
Everyone has their own way of keeping time. No way is no longer true or false. But then, how do you store the time, has some consequences. What would happen if your past was located directly in front of you? Are your memories of the past did not manage to you? Bill came to me in a state of depression. His girlfriend left him a year ago. Working with Bill, I found that picture of her departure was located directly in front of his face. I used some interference. Depression disappeared when Bill moved that image from his face back in his head.
If the future is behind the person, whether he have the motivation to achieve this image? No, the motivation to be weak, if at all, because the future is behind us. The most beneficial location of the future - for ourselves. Unlikely that the picture, located behind us, motivate, as well as unconscious mind said: "Hey! Behind me - the past, so this picture is not important for the future ".
On the other hand, what are your chances to reach the goal, if the image of the future is in front of you and looks big and bright? If the value of the brightness and you have functioned as a critical submodalnosti, you'll have a much greater motivation to achieve its goals. There is an old saying: "No revelations over the people of unchecked" *. Work on the line time has taught us how to understand the truth of this expression.
You have an interest primarily to what is happening now or what will happen in the future? Are you interested in the future in general? As a priest, I (BB) is disappointed when met people who live with only one point. As they could not weigh the circumstances? At the same time, I envied them because they seemed to get more pleasure from this than I do. NLP taught me to understand that people view time differently. This issue is related to neurophysiology, rather than spirituality.
Ted James in the book "Psychotherapy on the basis of time and identity" said the difference between the Anglo-European and Arab times. Anglo-European time has come to us as a result of the industrial revolution. The work of the conveyor requires that all workers would come in time. Conveyor demands that have been structured linear manner. At each stage, build a successful business is making a specific contribution to the manufactured equipment. Anglo-European Time describes the time, so that one event happens after another. Time is perceived linearly, and events in time are both on the assembly line.
In contrast, in Arabic, all happening at the same time. Despite the fact that people, characterized by means of the Anglo-European notions of time, arriving in time for the other person living with the Arab concept of time, time is irrelevant. If someone does not appear today, it could equally well appear tomorrow! People from the Islamic countries and world regions with warm climates are likely to operate primarily in the Arab time. They live moment. Time for them now, not when the next meeting. These people can engage in multiple affairs simultaneously.
Several years ago I (BB), and my wife visited our friend, the missionary, in Martinique. Martinique - this French island located in the southern Caribbean islands. Start committee meeting late for an hour or so - very common in Martinique. If someone told you that he will come to your home in three hours of the afternoon, it may appear, and in five, thinking that nothing had happened. I experienced the state of cultural shock. The man who thinks in this way will rarely make plans for the time exceeding two weeks. The exception would be cases where the work or some other very important reason why people make the plan for more time. In the United States you will find and the Anglo-European, and Arab understanding of time. For example, if a woman operating in the Anglo-European mode of time, and her husband - in Arabic, will not be surprised to discover their marital conflict: the wife is planning to save money for the future, and the husband wants to spend them now!
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