A world, perhaps, is to change
Suppose we have good will and old-fashioned,
Gullible, naive love,
And sincere, as was to be free.
This is not some deep study. Probably - just a selection of interesting ideas and techniques. Perhaps this article will help someone understand me, or just cause to ponder. Others will find some useful exercises.
We all dream about love, about his ideal. However, many in life is not quite true, but rather - it is not so, as in dreams.
Instead of establishing good relations, we are looking at each other for years on the pain points and the ability to exercise at the right time to press on them.
And the dream remains. But we are farther away from it by placing blocks grubeya every day, closing from friends and from themselves.
We learn not to reveal: after all so painless. At best, produces a habit to live quietly, but without interest.
Often the life of every family member passes, as it were, in parallel to another, touching on a few minutes a day.
Sign of such a relationship becomes a situation where people are starting to swear, if a safe amount of time by chance increases.
In progress are prohibited practices, the memories of the past and seek the life of someone who загубил.
Many people think that the situation will change later, however, put off their happiness for later on tomorrow.
And tomorrow it does not. We are waiting for solve their problems, or okrepnem material, or the children grow up. Then you love and happiness. Not now, later.
And we dream, when our life will go down a man who will love us. Or when it will change my husband / wife? When people become more kind to me and remarked, finally, that I am good?
But our relations with other people may only reflect our relationship with himself.
World - our mirror. If we look at relationships with other people, we just see a reflection of our love (or lack of love) to you.
Louise Hay writes: "I came to the conclusion that when we love ourselves, appreciate their actions and remain ourselves, our life becomes so beautiful that words do not vyskazhesh. Small Wonders - everywhere.
Health improves, the money goes into the hands of ourselves, our relationships with others flourish, and we are beginning to express their personality in a creative manner.
And all this happens without the slightest effort on our part. When we are sincere love and respect themselves and appreciate their actions, we create a specific organization of mind ".
While we do not love ourselves, we can not fall in love with someone else. We may need the com something, stick to them, to idealize and romanticize them, pity them, but we are unable to love them until you fell in love with himself.
In order to ensure that your life was love, you must first learn to love himself. Adopting such as we are.
To love themselves, and then the other. And then change your attitude to people and people to you.
You will be able to perceive people and themselves as they really are.
You will gain the ability to make a vision of human beings: they will see the roles, aspirations, doubts and concerns.
And find that all resemble one another and that "people are made of people". And become tolerant to many actions that were previously considered to be a failure.
Then start appearing in your life, people, events and relationships that you have always dreamed of. You simply want to. Actually want, rather than abstract.
Relationship quality will give you new possibilities for further growth, and highlight all the hidden problems and suppressed emotions.
And if your relationship does not have the traits of openness, trust, closeness, ability to resolve the conflict, the ability to listen, to give, to find each other new things, if you are not happy relationships, life, dreams together and love unconditionally, then your relationship built on egoism , fears, and finding safety.
Signs of a selfish feeling of jealousy, lack of respect and emotional closeness, manipulation of others, calm, but the gaudy life.
If you really want gentle, trusting, close relationship, they are you will. In the end, we create our reality. We always get what want.
If we are ready and willing to. Only because of our fears and hidden problems, we do not always get what, as we think, want.
Try to remember and analyze the closest relationships in your life. Whether they are true love and kindred souls, or only on the search for approval and affirmation?
"His own soul - is the one who has the keys to our locks, and whose locks fit our keys.
When we feel so safe that we can open our locks, then our original "I" go towards each other, and we can be fully and sincerely to those who we are.
And we love these, what we eat, but not as what we are trying to be.
Each opens a better part of another. And, despite everything that makes us suffer, with that person we feel the well-being, as in paradise.
His own soul - this is the one who shares our deepest aspirations, our favorite line of traffic.
If we are like two balloons go up, a very high probability that we find in each other the right person.
His own soul - this is thanks to you begin to live a genuine life ". (R. Bach)
Perform the following exercise:
Write what you love yourself. Praise yourself and try to find all positive, in your opinion, quality. And for that you might like or love the other?
And are there any qualities, for which you do not love yourself? What is quality? It could change your life if you love yourself more?
How to change your behavior? What would change in your approach to life, relationships with friends and loved ones? How to change your life in general?
Take a deep breath, then vydohnite all the air. Relax your body. Then tell me: "I want to break free. I am relieved of all tension.
I am relieved of all fear. I will be exempt from all my old beliefs. And I feel calm. I am in harmony with itself. I am in harmony with the life process itself. I am in security ".
Repeat this exercise three times. When you think that you are in a difficult situation, a repeat these phrases.
And then these words will become part of yourself and will be so natural that all the stress and the daily struggle gradually disappear from your life.
Describe your life at this point: what you do, where you live, what people surround you? Your life is more happy or more miserable with each passing day?
Is your life personal growth? If you are happy in their path, the path of heart, if not - this way, devoid of heart.
Imagine that you are old, wise and kindly. Give me advice on passing your way.
Maybe you do too much of one thing and not enough to others? Feel and imagine a good way to smooth the path, if it is deprived of the hearts.
In the future, try to feel the conviction that you best friend to myself and to live, giving light to the relationship with each other, with other people, bringing love in every moment of the day.
If you have a problem exists with its surroundings: with a partner, child or colleagues at work, before they seek treatment, try to make conversation at a level higher I'm human.
Relax, try to enter into a state here and now, when possible by all senses. Begin to inhale white light.
For this light. You become their highest Ya carefully consider the problem that you have created by their conduct.
Now you can see all the nuances of the problem and understand why you are attracted conflicting events in their lives.
Imagine the other person, party to the conflict, which is currently coming to you. Pay attention as you begin to interact with each other.
Your university I can talk to another human being I am supreme. Speak what you think: asking for forgiveness, if realized their mistake, forgive man for his mistakes.
Hear that, people said to you. Send them Love and Light.
This exercise brings stunning and fast results. Restored relations, even in the event of a protracted conflict.
If your relationship got to the borderline when it seems the relationship is not restored, try to understand what qualities you should learn from the man, forgive him and release.
As in the previous exercise, relax deeply. Try to understand why you are holding onto the old relations, what their quality proetsiruete per person, as your conduct is retaliatory negative reactions.
Now Proclaim your decision that you need to break the relationship.
When you're fully prepared, the second person to appear before you. Embrace it, thank you for life lessons and say: "I love you and released. I love you and leave ".
Break the thread which connects you to the level of solar plexus, and go without turning.
If, in carrying out these exercises, you can not understand the lesson that you need to learn from the situation, use the reception of intuitive response.
The meaning of the reception that you enter in the meditative state, and asked about the situation, and then start to write down all the thoughts that come to you in the head.
After that, you can consider anything that was written, had knowingly providing the most meaningful to you the words and symbols.
Probably already in the fulfillment of the first part of the exercise, and may, after a while, you will understand everything that you need to understand.
The man himself knows what he needs to know in order to lead a fulfilling and satisfying, happy and effective life.
You are able to do so now. The thing only, to unlock, unlock, release.
You know you about it or not, but it is here, right now. All that just happen to you, and everything that happened to you, everything that can affect you in the future - there now.
"Figuratively speaking, there is flow soznavaniya occurring all the time - a potential, but complete.
If only we can delve into it, any answer that we need - there. If you can formulate a question, you get a reply.
You can not formulate a question to which you could not get a response ". (D. Enrayt)
Every morning you can start your day, a small ritual of opening a Spirit. You can light a candle, fragrance, or hold in your hand your favorite crystal. A prayer can be acceptable to offer the following words:
"I woke up this morning, is firmly keeping in mind who I am, knowing that I am the light and love.
I dedicate this day, their spiritual growth and penetration and communication with the supreme Spirit, that he helped hold the whole day in the love and joy ".
You can prepare a card and life-wise sayings, and read one every morning saying, adjusting himself on the day. For example, as follows:
When we truly love ourselves, our life is wonderful.
We must learn to live in the present moment.
Adoption of themselves and the approval of their actions - the key to long to change.
Life is very simple. What we give, then we get.
I am beautiful and I love you. This is the most beautiful day of my life. All that I need to know - will come.
No desire to not give you separate from the force, allowing it to implement.
To bring something into your life, imagine if it is already there.
In each of us lies the power to choose for themselves the health or sickness, wealth or poverty, freedom or slavery. Only we have disposed of it, and nobody else.
There are problems that do not contain a Dar designed for you.
All the important things in this world are made of truth and joy, and not from the fabric and glass.
Each person and each event is present in your life because you have attracted them. What will you do with them, it's up to you to.
In order to live freely and happily you must sacrifice boredom.
And finally, remember that the wise man said: "Love is like the color - if it zatsvela in you - you have to share it, give it. And the more you give it, the more it grows in you.
If you continue to give, will come a day when you become a constant, never-ending source of love ".
Used the ideas and comments Richarada Bach, Louise Hay, Jill Edvardz, Arnold Mindella, C. Jagdish, Osho, John Enrayta and poetry group Sunday.
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