In life, there is a very harmful thing, or rather a phenomenon which is called "Mr. Chief". However, in some people, this phenomenon has long been there that very happy.
So, this scourge, I can tell you frankly, be worse than no money, recognition, even a lack of intelligence. Postrashnee will! Listen, I'll tell you. After all, you want to be strong people, right? You want to be really free people, or not?
Just do not say that you do not want to. Who does not want this?
But a strong and free people can be addicted to some of Mr. Head, even though both the latter architecture, a brilliant man? Well, tell me, how can?
As I remember, told us in school mathematics teacher: "Guys, think better curve, but his mind!" Indeed, sometimes have to think the curve, but their own.
And the benefits of this, ultimately, was more prohibitive than the harm from errors in thinking. Much more useful! I remember even that it is such a teacher is praised dvoechnikov when they managed to do the work in the "three". These are the teachers there!
So what is the terrible "devil" on behalf of Mr. Head? I think the worst of the phenomenon of the Lord Chief that he was withdrawing from his subordinate are the intellectual effort, an independent decision that is the way the development of personal strength.
You understand me, I hope? If not, please read written above sentence once again and vdumaytes.
If you have a direct supervisor, who directs you, controls you, controls you, you can safely delete itself from the list of strong personalities. Well, you certainly can if it will still take a strong personality. It also does not forbid you to think about yourself anything you want. Right? :)
However, the truth, it does not escape. No. I asked readers what is the manipulation of the "Head - Slave" and how to protect themselves from them?
In the relations "Head - Slave" a lot of manipulation. But you ever wondered what type of essential importance manipulation "Head - Slave"?
Hang on for a chair, I am open to you right now a huge secret, informed and researched by me on all sides, both the practical and theoretical. Are you ready? Then listen.
The ability to effectively protect themselves from manipulation of the type "Head-Slave" makes a person unable to work at paid work, and automatically puts it on a path of personal development, both physical (in my case) and mental (in the arts to influence other people's) ".
If you do not understand me, then I repeat once again, a simple language.
If you learn how to learn and skill to protect themselves from manipulation of the Chief, it is now or you are going to become the Chief, or will their business.
Do not rush! Vchitaytes in this proposal, Get inside it, and you realize what it contains a profound truth.
I have seen in my life a lot of bosses, stupid, smart, intolerable, talented, mediocre. And I know that "brother" wonderful. I know how manipulative techniques they use.
I also know how to remove objectionable chief as competently arrange intrigue as to establish partnerships with the head to make his best friend, how quickly assess whether or not to work for you in the new organization or not, how to raise wages.
But it is not even in it! The point is that if you or any other, all it knows and learns this, he quickly begins to realize that there is no chief of the gift in him and his life is not necessary, as the fifth leg of the dog.
So just from that point and start all the fun in your business life. In general, only you to decide for themselves - you are an independent person or the one used as a means of production. You want to be the means of production? I do not want. :)
How to talk with the head so as to gradually remove all the manipulation? It is not difficult. Start increasingly define his or her supervisor the following questions:
1) Why did this have to do so, and not otherwise?
2) What can I do to actually increase their salaries doubled or tripled?
3) How do I increase my contribution to the overall result of the company and how much I can earn money with this?
Enough to start. Ozvuchte these questions several times before his superior, and hear his answers. This will be the first step towards your personal growth and commitment.
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