Paul Ferrini

When two I agree, this is cause for concern. Because by nature I am a human I disconnected with other conflicts with them. So if the two I agree, you can be sure - they united to oppose the third I.

This is not a genuine agreement, and temporary alliance. As soon as the common enemy is defeated, the alliance is no longer needed and I returned each to his own program.

Search for love in harmony - not too wise. It is sure to bring disappointment. It is much better to look for it in disagreement.

Remember I told you, "Love your enemies"? I said this is not the spirit of contradiction. There were several good reasons. First of all, to love one another easily. In most cases, one agrees with you and support you. So it is easy to love.

And here is your enemy not agree with you. He is sure that you are not right. He sees your weaknesses and will do everything we can to take advantage of them. If you have a weak spot, you can be sure that he knows about it. Simply put, the enemy will not treat doubt in your favor. Because it - your best teacher.

The enemy throws light on the fact that you most dislike in yourself. He shows you exactly where your lurking fears and insecurities. If you listen to what the enemy is saying to you, you know exactly what you need to fix. Only someone who opposes you like this can be just a good teacher.

Why do I say, love your enemy? Because if you do not love him, do not fall in love with that gift, which he'll do.

No one can live a life without allies and adversaries. Good ally ready to confront you. A good opponent, the best ally.

Learning to love the enemy, you, therefore, be willing to look into all the dark corners of his mind. Your enemy - a mirror in which you look for as long as it reflected in the angry person will smile back.

To make peace with the enemy, you have to learn to look at everything, not only their own, but their eyes. Then you'll have a compassion, and you will overcome the conflict.

Remember, for reconciliation with enemies does not necessarily agree with them. But we must learn to love them.

The world is not coming as a result of the agreement of both I, as I am not able to come to an agreement. Peace comes when there are love and mutual respect.

Loving the enemy is like a friend who is not afraid to disagree with you. And you can not banish it from the heart only for the fact that he sees things differently than the way you. You listen carefully to what he says.

When you listen to the enemy as would listen to each other, it does not your H. It is the Spirit in you listen to the Spirit, which is in him.

The cause of all human conflict is simple: each party obeschelovechivaet another. Each thinks the other less worthy.

While each side perceives the other in this way, you can not even agree on the simplest little things. But it is necessary to show the other side of respect and understanding, as even the most complex issues are resolved easily.

Love is the source of miracles. Solutions found loving consciousness knows no bounds. Willingness to love, that is, to consider each other's equal - the essence of all chudotvorstva.

From a variety of points of view is born one which takes into account the point of view of everyone. But it can not occur until all views are heard. Your job, my friends - impartially listen to everyone.

This is the essence of democracy, which is not only a spiritual ideal, but a living, moving, breathing process.

When the process is interrupted, the ideal is distorted. But while it remains in force - no matter how awkward and cumbersome at times it may seem - ideal can not be shown.

Society, allowing a variety of points of view - is a society based on the practical manifestation of love and equality.

(To be continued)