Life the way: communication.
Another vital way - communion: not babble or talk about anything, but the exchange of ideas, concepts, philosophy, values, beliefs, attitudes and feelings. (If you feel disgusted to talk about anything, then communication is probably one of your ways of life.) Those who seek to communicate, often have barriers to conversation as a child, perhaps seven, which is constantly squabbled and continue talking type "pass me the salt", or who believed that children can be seen but not heard, or have physical barriers such as stuttering, deafness or dyslexia, the inability to read. In my own life of communication - a key issue, and one of my targets was the fear of conflict. When I was a child, my family is often fun for the dinner table talking about what happened on the day of our plans for the weekend, about the intentions of our friends and acquaintances, but we never discussed politics, literature, social issues, religion, ethics dilemma, or the value of life and death, not because we were ignorant, but because they were afraid of any difference of opinion or conflict. In my ever-happy family never had a dispute!
As a result, I grew up not having any desire to challenge someone or to discuss difficult issues - and provided that the conflict is dangerous. I never learned how to object or to settle the conflict, other than to refuse to debate or be put under. As a child solution to this dilemma was the expression itself through stories, songs, poems and diary, and later, through magazine articles, as the indirect one-sided form of communication to avoid open conflict. I was already more than twenty when I began to express controversial views face to face, rather than relative "safety" of my typewriter.
Life path: healing and learning.
Healing and learning - another possible goal, which is easier to express, as a school teacher, lecturer, nurse, therapist, homeopaths, hilerom, astrology, social worker, a priest, a driver and so on. This does not mean, of course, that all the nannies and the doctor - healers, as many of them are not. And does not mean that teachers are making their life goals, as many believe their sole purpose "cram facts". Nevertheless, they have the opportunity to be present teachers and doctors, performing their work. Others honor it is less obvious, for example, by being a seller, who is always shining smile and a positive view of the world, or being a mother, which by its own example teaches his children to love and respect themselves.
A Course In Miracles includes a section "Book Teacher" and said that everyone - teachers, whether formally or not - formally. It notes that the learning process oboyuden that the teacher and pupil - One. It emphasizes that there are only two systems of education that we can train, coming from the Ego or I'm coming from (or of God). Whenever we meet someone, we can confirm the negative, fear or doubt them, or add to their love of light and joy, even if we just buy a newspaper. Every day, we can bid farewell to the man to leave his tired, depressed or full of fear, or we can be for him a source of hope and inspiration.
Life path: to serve others.
Serve others - the same common goal in life in general is seen as serving the individual, society and humanity. "The social professions" - nannies work, medicine, advocacy, psychotherapy, the work of the Ministry and so on, all these activities are clearly designed to work with people as well as volunteering and organizational work of all kinds. Jobs in the media may also be service to others, for example, a study of social problems, increasing awareness or changing the status quo.
The risk of service to others that we have to walk on the tight rope. If we make a false step and fall on one side, we will be overwhelmed by our protective, ever-supervisory Ego. ( "Poor! Those of us who are fortunate to be healthy / wealthy / wise should help us a little". "How wonderful that I have to stand up against this monstrous oppression!") And if we fall on the other side, we are another aspect of our Ego: martyrdom. ( "I do try, but all so exhausting and so daunting.") In any case, it is not like this "help" the individual. To avoid these pitfalls, you should get exactly as much as we give.
Life path: power.
Many prefer to develop personal qualities or "force" for life: aesthetic perception, creativity and productivity, courage, leadership, courage, faith, responsibility, compassion, inner peace, intellectual curiosity, a sense of humor, honesty and openness, the ability to make commitments or fight for our principles, ideals and values, ability to forgive. Therefore, we create the circumstances that put us to the tasks.
If you, for example, want to learn to forgive, then, of course, you have to determine the roles in your story that the actors will behave, the need for forgiveness: the characters would be to insult, betray, steal, scorn or ill treat you or your people with expensive . If you want to build on honesty and candor, if you put yourself in a situation where the easier it will be to lie, cheat or pretend.
For some, spirituality is a way of life - that is a conscious development of relations with the Creator, the universe, all Suschim - and they learn this way, practicing the religion of any kind, although not necessarily. For these people, the spiritual consciousness affects every moment of their lives their meaning and significance. It fills every possibility for growth. This is the eternal source of love, light and joy.
Other ways of life may include turning weakness into force (for example, pride in self-confidence, self-effacement in humility, greed of desire), training of "movement adrift", taking responsibility for their own lives, their inner wisdom, confidence, create abundance, refusing to be "cloth", or research frontiers of consciousness.
Of course, we can and should work on ways that we have never met. Everyone meets at the obstacles and limitations, and I hope that they all aim to develop our personal qualities and characteristics. If we decide that the love and honesty are not in the list of our ways of life, this does not absolve us from being loving and honest! (And if we decide that it's still not sure it will be our task in life the next time!).
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