> What is the primary motivator of human activity?
Very good on the said John Grinder - the founder of NLP, where the Moscow Seminar on the New Code of NLP (2004) asked about the purpose of life: 'dreams, goals and intentions, which we have in life - this is a bit tricky, for the to make us move. The reason why we choose a goal or trying to follow the dream, is that they force us to go and discover new adventures and other prostrnastva in this life. It's like a carrot before the horse. We can be slaves to our own goals and dreams, and forget what was the original intention of all this. Thus, we exclude all the possibilities to evaluate and get everything that comes to us on the path to that goal. I think it should be a good traveler on his life, noticing all the things who come to him, perhaps even unexpectedly. You can go on holiday, and your goal will be there, but on the way you find something even more charming, and you change your route.
I now not only answer to the question of the purpose of life, but also describes one of the most successful strategies in science, which led to many discoveries. "
> What is a personal reality and what is restricted?
Accumulated information about the world - the way we think about the world based on what we know about it. Limited, it filters of perception - the fact that people believe in and that allows. Increased perception of filters and a new information makes it possible to significantly back the boundaries of personal reality.
> What is social attitudes and how they affect behavior?
Beliefs society, roughly speaking, what can that not be as necessary as it is accepted, etc. Influence the behavior of directly creating or opening the borders allowed, and setting the direction and behavior of the preferred options to be adopted by society. In social systems there is nothing wrong - it is "conditional rules, which people in a particular society" plays "like the terms of the contract.
However, live exclusively in the social attitudes just as a personal car, who goes only by tram rails. And, at the same time, drive the car not paying attention to the tram rails, not the most respectful and safe way of driving. :)
> What is the scenario of life and how to change it?
The script of life of every human being lies in his unconscious behavioral programs. From childhood, learning how to behave in society, we have accumulated within a sufficient amount of information that is important and necessary in life (values and goals), what are the people (social roles), and how they behave (strategy ). The best (most effective from our point of view) from this we have chosen for themselves, having received a set of roles, goals and strategies of social behavior. Trained to use this wealth we have created a very successful program available unconsciousness, which obliged all that we have. And if we begin to trust them too, and make choices in their favor, instead of seeking the new, they become dangerous.
Most critical turns in the way of our life predetermined. But not so much of our behavior in certain situations, but our desire to find or create these situations in order to reach them - because of our success. If we waive any other way, the trap slam success, and our scenario of life becomes even more certain.
Odanko, freedom, we took no one, except themselves. And every person can change your life script, and even learn to write it alive - improvise - that is, to live. To make this possible, you need to work on an internal reorganization of their unconscious programming. "Erase personal history", as referred to Castaneda, or, in the language of NLP - rasprogrammirovat their patterns (unconscious behavioral programs). Thus, we do not lose the old programs, but let them move away into the background, giving way to a lively conscience and freedom of choice in kazhy the moment of our lives.
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