Decision-making.
Carolina's problem was its inability to make decisions. She worked as secretary and hated the job, but could not decide what it wants in reality. The relationship with her young man lasted six years, but she did not feel confident, whether to live together with him or not. In thirty years, she still looked and conducted himself as a teenager. Her panic attacks began. So long to notice it a "whisper", that the Inland "I" had to send an urgent message. It was a sad way to attract her attention.
Undergoing treatment, she knew what to do almost any change is better than to remain in place. We learn about ourselves, making mistakes or achieving success, but we do not learn anything, staying in the old track. Eventually, she decided to start learning to business, and in the meantime, move with Jim, "to see whether we be together forever, or run". Following the decision, the panic has stopped and replaced with a mixture of emotions associated with fear of intimacy and commitment, as well as the unrest and uncertainty: Is it an adult student. It moved to its future.
If you make a decision for you - just flour, if you come in confusion, not knowing in which of the possible future move, what to do more steps in personal growth, here in front of you several ways to hear the whisper:
1. Always start with at least three options. NLP (neurolinguistic programming) believes that if we offer only a single course of action, we become robots, with two choices, we are faced with a dilemma, but if we have three options before us a choice. Whatever the situation, we are always - always! - Have a lot of different options, and we can not make a decision simply because it is not considered other options. Therefore, start thinking about, at least three possibilities.
2. Imagine that you are making the choice to turn and look, good or confuse you think each option. (Note that the choice of dealing with growth, the need to always involves risk.)
Which choice would have made you proud of? Which choice most would help to learn and grow? Which choice (election) is based on fear or the desire to remain in a familiar environment? Which would give you more love for yourself, others, and (or) to the planet? Which choice (election) would have made you feel less isolated from the rest? What seems filled with light and joy? Which gives you more energy when you consider it?
3. If you want to choose between two options, then take a decision in the left arm, and another - to the right and close his eyes. Tune and feel where there is a growing movement of energy. What the hand can feel the warmth and tingle? Which of the hands can feel the energy of a charged more? What has attracted more attention?
4. If you would like to help, try the quick prediction, such as Tarot cards, I Ching, Angel or PsiKards CARDS. Materialistic worldview believes that throwing a coin, or for milfoil divination or chamomile, or to choose cards from the deck - the arbitrariness and nonsense. But metaphysics suggests that if we ask for guidance, we will get it.
If you do not speculate on what, just go to any book - Today, even the dictionary - and with his eyes closed to indicate a word or paragraph. Please read and consider its possible significance. (Of course, if you believe that this is nonsense, the book may reflect this belief and give you nonsense. It is easy to prove themselves to truth. But if you honestly ask yourself guide, and not just give their energy to be decided on for you, then the answer will always be a wise and appropriate.)
5. Another reception - this is brainstorming. If you need inspiration - the direction to your career, in which city to move, how to resolve a family problem, where to go on holiday - but at most, twenty minutes, write down any idea that comes to mind. Do not censor ideas, no matter how ridiculous they may seem to you. Write down everything. Then carefully read the list, the thought of the idea, noting any idea if it seems to jump from the page level and frees up the energy of light or somewhere in your body.
6. Dreams - a rich source of inspiration and guidance, as well as excellent training and new thinking. If you do not manage the diary of dreams, I strongly recommend to try. Twenty years I interpret dreams, but still astound their wisdom, beauty, humor and insight, and they often run by my decisions, reflecting the enormous emotions and thoughts. When I was a graduate student, I am ready to begin a research project on the topic, which has been associated for many years, and once I dreamed that I was leaping from jumping into the water, but a springboard that hard, that I can not push off and make the jump. When I recorded the dream, I realized that I was already bored to death of this proposed project and the need to choose another topic. New topic led me to the uncharted areas of psychology, which, in another case, I would have missed.
Through the gates.
(If you have to choose between two or three options, this meditation often helps.) Relax deeply and then imagine yourself reaching for the village street. Use all your feelings, to revive the scene. Feel yourself walking aimlessly, draw a field and trees. Hear the singing of birds. Feel the smell of the village air.
You are at the end of streets, approach to the three gates. Each of the gates are one of your election. (Prior to the visualization decide which choice corresponds to each gate. May decide that third gate symbolize the unknown option, which still need to consider. If this is a simple type of Yes-No, then draw two gates.)
Carefully look at the third gate, then log in through them. (Closed gate there? How easy they are opened? This shiny metal gates, or ramshackle wooden?) What is the landscape of the gates? Where does the road? How are you feeling it? When all the scrutiny, go back to the street and then the other gate.
Repeat all this with each gate in turn. Then quietly go back to his room.
(At one seminar the man was trying to decide whether or not to change their work. Gate A, which symbolized a new career, opened at the grassy field, and it stretched along the high trail dizzying precipice. Vorota In designating his current work on the sale of computers were on the highway and a residential neighborhood to gray, ending the deadlock. His choice was obvious.)
Our strongest desire is directed to the opening of our integrity, and whatever we have ignored it, the momentum will just continue to go to the surface. You may always come extravagancy play the piano or flute, or run their own business or work abroad, build a boat, writing stories, running to the marathon distance or live in a country house? Some of these desires can be adolescent fantasy of flight, of which you have to be honest, and do not want to. (Country House can be a romantic dream, but you might prefer the comfort, convenience and bustle of city life.) But the other desires will burst, which you must respond, impulses that will help you grow.
Intuitive flashes in the selection of likely future выскакивают often out of nowhere, images, dreams, fantasies, feelings, thoughts, impulses, bodily sensations. But whatever form or takes intuition, it is entirely credible. She - a form of knowledge. She - a message from our Supreme Y.
If you are intuitive promptings, act. Stop noticing the wisdom of the Supreme I, then, and it was some time will not pester you to call. Intuition always leads you to a better way.
Proven method to allow intuition flourish - it is regular meditation, that would be it either means: domestic travel, dance, walk in the woods, or listening to music. Intuitive flashes often occur during or immediately after meditation. Through relaxation and rest the mind, through the immersion of constant chatter conscious "I" we are becoming more and more receptive to the whisper of the Supreme Y.
Shortly after a private reading with "Bartholomew" in Taose, New Mexico, I traveled out of town, near the Rio Grande. Sitting on the bank of the river in an expanded state of consciousness after class, I "knows" without a doubt, that all wisdom and knowledge available to me. I just need to ask. I asked about my higher purpose, past lives, karma connections with others, and likely future, and the answers flow fled in my brain. Unusual bird flew by. I asked that this and the inner voice answered me. Unfortunately, I quickly went back to "normal", but a sense of potential access to all knowledge remains. Why would we want to know what would be insignificant or, conversely, it may be important, it is available in the energy field that constantly surrounds us. Only need to ask, trust, dive into our inner peace and to listen "whisper".
HYPNOSIS
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