The principle of Yin-Yang.
Is it good to be the world if it would be only positive? No! ... In fact - it is physically impossible: on a white background, white is not visible - if not about the negative, then what is considered a positive? The world must be "black" and "white" to be. That is, there can be positive if there are no negatives, and vice versa.
For most of us, a mobile phone - the daily banality - 0% negative or positive. But it is to forget to charge it, leave home, or God forbid lose ... But when so pomuchaeshsya day (or three), then working the phone in your pocket becomes a joy! The same goes for clothing, transportation, electricity, water, food, and so on (for the pyramid Maslou). Everything that we appreciate as a positive, can be so only on kotraste the negative (and vice versa). Orgasm would not have been so wonderful, whether it is continuous throughout the whole life.
But the contrast is not the only condition for the existence of the world. If only it - sooner or later the world would be balanced, and stood on the spot. To the world was alive, that he was moving in a negative act must be a positive intention, and every positive - a negative reason. Therefore, every murder carried a desire for something better, and each transformation, each new achievement - the suffering, or dissatisfaction with the previous capacity.
Yes, people do not always use appropriate means to the goals, but people always want better. And, of course, people do not always understand what really is the best ... But the whole focus is that "better" in the absolute sense does not it always exists only on a "worst"! This is a great law of life, making the world revolve. And the code of the law written in the Yin-Yang symbol:
The main secret.
What is the secret of a happy life, or the correct way (in terms of laws of nature)? In harmony.
The main problem people is that they fall in one extreme, then in another; same success lies in the fact that knowing the extreme, to adhere to the balance between them.
In NLP there is such a term - "congruence," which translates to - consistency. Congruence can be divided into internal (consistency with its values and principles) and external (consistency with community values and norms). And if you want something to succeed, must be congruent with each other, and with the world at the same time - that is, to observe a healthy balance. See ...
There are people who are congruent with the world, they are almost always tuned to the motion, even if this requires sacrificing something of her. Dobyutsya Do they succeed? It is obvious that such an approach, they did not let the 'main highways. " These are usually "go" all who do not feel sorry for them.
There are people who are congruent with each other and always follow their principles so that they are ready to go to his head for them, or at least not specifically potesnit everyone else. Whether they will succeed? Yes, but only on the first part of the journey. Then comes what is called "Spit found at the stone." If you do not take into account the interests of the world, but only propihivaesh their world very quickly replace you in any convenient way to him, or others just disappear on their cases, and then meet somewhere else. And it will be possible to have a long talk that they are all stupid and do not understand, but at the Delhi to protect their interests. And following "they" will do the same.
So there is only one way to success and happiness at the same time for a man - is congruent with one another, congruent with the environment and the balance between them. And you can as long as you want to solve their problems and work towards achieving the goals, the failure of this law will produce new, and respect - to realize dreams. Over time, of course:)
In general, congruence and balance - it is not so difficult, and there's only one problem - sometimes does not get ... :) And keeping in the hands of a powerful psihotehnologiyu as GLP unwittingly ask: how do to this observance of congruence and balance sheet were "on the machine, which is called" unconscious kometentnosti "and that this does not have to worry? This opportunity is ...
The essence of the New Code of NLP.
To solve this problem in 1983 by John Grinderom (United States) was established by the new code of NLP. The basis of its form: the concept of congruence, the use of high-trance states (High Performance State) to stand alone with its problems and tasks, knowledge, instinctive interface (use of the unconscious, "active intuition") and multiple descriptions of situations (multi-dimensional perception and upralenie filters attention).
In Russia brought new code of NLP, John Grinder (2004). Starting to use the new code of NLP itself, we added the "guidance system" (the search key areas of personal development), and several techniques, including a meta-system level, to identify systemic problems and to set up filters unconscious emphasis on the realization of desired goals.
But the main advantage of this model is that it promotes holistic thinking, which is a qualitatively new level of thinking (after the system) and the world.
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